. her feelings of course... and this does present a opportunity.. to see where the boundaries of this fledgling relationship.... could be set...
... and I have thought.. what if the shoe was on the other foot.....
.. I would tell her to go and enjoy the concert..... but and here's the issue.. I think I would be thinking.... how serious is she about me.... and my feelings would be just a little hurt.....
... I suppose if she came back from the concert... and lavished all her attention on me... that would help ease my hurt..mmmm... that would be my plan... take her somewhere nice on the next date night... to ease. her suffering..lol..... I just do not wish.. to not be true to my own desires... like attending the concert.....
... the issue is being! a new relationship.. the absolute trust is not in place yet...... and yes I want this to work..... but at the same time I need to be true to my own wishes and desires.... honestly I just got the invitation today.... was excited when I received it... and then I was going to call my new interest... with my good news..... but before I picked up the phone..... a little voice in my head said wait a minute... better think this through first..lol
Edited by
no1phD
on Wed 11/12/14 08:19 PM