Is that a weird thing to do? I don't really have anyone to go out with and I am single. Sometimes I just need to get out of the house and hear some cheap local music. Anyone else do this? At the age of 35 going on 36 I feel kind of stupid for doing this. What do you think? Is it weird seeing a girl go to a show alone in Sacramento? I don't really know anyone in this town.

Maybe it's weird that I don't make friends easily? Any tips for making friends with girls if I am a girl? I'm kinda pretty and thin I guess but I can't help how I look- just like anyone else. Seems women are threatened and insecure and I admit I am too- unfortunately.

On another note do you think marriage is a good idea or a prison that makes people eventually feel locked up and unsatisfied in life? Maybe people have kids and then are too selfish and put themselves first before their kids who need a stable home with both parents there to show them how to become a steady, mature adult. Do you think if people do get married that honesty about dwindling interest and possible affairs is a good or bad idea- not like I would have an affair if I was married- that would be so wrong.

Anyways, have a nice weekend all.

p.s. feel free to respond on any topic I brought up. these are just some things I have been pondering so if you're bored go ahead and share your thoughts or else don't and go see a show =). The latter might be a better use of your time =)

"The past is history, future's a mystery and right now is a gift- that's why it's called 'the present'" - Eleanor Roosevelt

Of course it is ok to go to live music alone. Many have been doing it forever. I am not so sure it is a good way to get "picked up".

Marriage in the US now has a 50% failure rate. That means that half work. Most of the failures can be written off to immaturity, getting married for the wrong reasons, or other things that are preventable. Some marriages fail because the people just grow apart. That said, if you want to get married, take the right steps and hope for the best. Oddly, I would bet that most married people in affairs thought that it would never happen when they first got married.

Many people don't make friends easy. Big deal. Cherish the few you make.

Thanks. Yeah I go out to hear music because I like it and I also like being around humans every now and then. I have two dogs- and people need to be around people every now and then, I suppose. However it seems I get the feeling people think because I am a girl going out alone that I am trying to get picked up and look at me suspiciously. I guess I will ignore it

I do not want to and will not allow anyone to pick me up. I am not here for collection , LOL. Ultimately I'd say I am looking for my guy, and don't really think intimacy is a precursor to finding out if someone is right for me or not.

Yeah I will probably make a female friend to kick it with eventually.
Thanks again, Rock on

What you want to avoid, is going to listen to dead music alone,
for that you will want a crowd.

But for live music? All you need is a little space around
yourself, to bump to the music.

Methinks you have a greater chance of meeting guys if alone.
They get intimidated.
No matter your looks.