all i want is something real im tired of games i have 2 boys i want mr right who can love me and my children who puts us first who sees a future with us in it who is not all about sex who wants to get to know me as me

hello Jacqueline and welcome to mingle.

I respect your position raising 2 children on your own. I hope you will join in the discussion on the forums.

I wish you the best in what you seek.

ty im excited i hope i can find my soulmate here as this seems to be one of the top places to find your partner and yes raising kids is not easy by yourself but thats not why i want a man i want one so i can be happy and have a family life for my kids.

Am interested and wud love to know more about you but am a kinda bad boy!!!! Lols

Good luck

your interested in what?.. sitting at her kitchen table with bottle of whiskey

somehow I don't see a match here.

Hi firstly I just want to say how amazing you are for raising your two beautiful children on your own. Secondly you deserve someone who will treat you right and with respect....I hope you find what you are looking for sweets.

I hope you find what your looking for. I know how hard finding someone as a solo parent is. All the best and keep up the good work.

I can completely understand where you are coming from. I am a single mom raising my niece and nephew. I am in no way trying to put men down, but all I can seem to get are requests for pix of my body. I am totally not against nude pics, but not to someone who's name I Don't know. I am not looking for someone to support my children, I make enough for that. I am looking for someone to go out and have a good time with, and to have an exclusive relationship with, and it seems impossible .

Best wishes to you both.

best wishes on finding the man you are looking for

I agree devil dog. Not dad material right there. hoo rah

Welcome to mingle2 . Being a single parent is hard to do.

oh well now its possible

oh well now its possible lets gt 2knw each other

Welcome to Mingle.

I am not sure how realistic your plan is but there are those rare gems that will.

I hope you have and Alternate Plan "B" to make sure you can give your family the support and guidance you are going to need over the long haul.

Don't be too eager to have a man come in and play family or your heartaches will only multiply.

I raised my 2 boys alone since they were 6 and 8, they are now 17 and 19 and although it would have been nice to date someone who was interested in my children, they did have a father even though contact wasn't what it should have been. I've been looking for someone to make me happy as selfish as it may sound my kids will leave home one already did for school and then I will be alone. I would rather have a great relationship with someone who accepts my children but doesn't really get involved. Then have someone who loves my children but just cares for me. There are a lot of years left between your kids leaving home and death I would like to share them with someone who loves me.

Good luck with your search
Hey Kazza
Good to see you back. I hope all is good with you and your child.

Think if you look for love for family meaning you and child ,not just a father figure for child ,will work out much better ,if a man loves you of course he will be the father figure ,next question where is child's father?

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" next question where is the father'?

Kind of an odd question.

I don't think women think in terms of ''father figure' anymore. Besides it's no ones business. Just because she is on a date site doesn't mean, the father or ex isn't around or isn't in their lives.
And of course there is always her male relatives.