I am a single mom to be and also am blessed with two younger boys with me, hoping to find someone who has room to love and be loved and not looking for a one night stand, someone gentle and caring I can build dreams with
and I want to encourage all you out there, ladies with kids, I know what it is like to either have people respect you for trying or condemn yuo and think you are just easy
but there is nothing EASY about being abandoned or choosing to walk away from a bad relationship
every step is hard, but needed and we all need to support eachother
if anyone is alone it is as easy as a smile or encouraging word, wherever we are
the answer is not finding someone unless that person is at peace with life and can give and receive happiness

cheers to the single moms doing it everyday

Brought my oldest boy up myself ( he's 23 ) and now I've got a four month old son and another kid on the way. I love being a dad!

cant get past the onenight stand part..

I raised two kids on my own from the time they were 7 & 9 they are not 30 & 32 with kids of their own..

Never thought it would be easy...just knew it was something I had to do... Never had anyone look down on me or talk about me.. It is all within whom one chooses to be around...

As far as dating never had a issue there either.. Even though I told them up front they would not live with me while my kids where growing up.. We have to do what we have to and things seems to work themselves out...

But then honestly I was not looking for someone to be with. My life was full with two kids.. I still managed to work,raise two kids and have time with friends or to date... I was blessed to have the best ex mother in law one could ask for... She was my life saver and my baby sitter anytime I needed her..

Raising kids on your own can be a challenge but well worth it in the end... It all depends if you take it on like a chore or a blessing....