and if what I am signing changes, it indeeds changes what I am doing
thats like my daughter bringing me a form to sign for her to have my consent to go on a field trip
and then asking me to sign a form permitting her to have consent to go on a field trip at 3 am
and declaring,, you were going to sign it before,,,,and Im still just asking you to sign it,, so nothing changed,,,
That is only because signing a field trip consent form is in fact giving your consent from someone you are responsible for. It's not the same thing as signing a marriage license. She is not responsible for the people getting married. All she is signing is a document that says it is legal for them to get married. Which it is.
This has nothing to do with religion or what she thinks is right or wrong. This has only has to do with what is legal. You can not be a public servant and violate the law you swore to uphold. Which is exactly what she is doing.
This is basicly the same as when County Clerks we denying marriage licenses to mixed couples. They didn't think with a black person should marry a white person. However, the law said they could. Once again, they either had to follow the law or resign their jobs. History shows, they either did their jobs or got replaced.
The county clerk's office is not the place to make a stand like that anyway. This was a ruling by the Federal supreme court. The only way to really make a stand against them is to make it with the federal government. Therefore, what she is doing makes no sense. She can't change the law from her position, and instead of working with the people that could change the law she is making a media circus and getting her name in the headlines. She want's her 15 minutes. Well, now she's had her time and nothing has changed. Except now people know how much of a bigot she really is.
The law will not change because it is in agreement with 14th Amendment. The only way to change the law is to modify the 14th Amendment. Which, by the way, would also take away women's rights. Are you sure you support her now?
In the US we have equal rights due to the 14th. You change the 14th and we no longer have equal rights. Sure, that would mean same sex marriage could be illegal. However, it also means black people would have no rights, the only people that could own land is white males, and the only people that could vote are land owners. That is what the constitution said before the 14th amendment was added. Why would anyone want to go back to that? Besides some white male landowners that is.
Over all what it comes down to is, if you don't like the law, changed it. Although, the day the US stops having equal rights is the same day I move permanently to another country where they do.
she shouldn't have to sign to say its legal, if its legal no individual needs to attest to it,, it just is
in her view, she is signing to authorize/consent to the contract
in my view, she is signing just to 'witness' that the laws were followed
for her and her conscious to not be willing to compromise her values by consenting to an amoral behavior,, and because I believe that is her conscience, I admire her for standing up for her values
this is not about equal rights, its about SEXUAL RELATIONS
civil unions would be about 'equal' rights and 'equal' access, because by nature of it not being in anyway connected to or predicated by SEXUAL relations,, it would truly be available to any two people sharing a life UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE
but marriage, uniquely, has such a strong EXPECTATION of sex as part of the deal, that one can have a legal document that virtually says it was never VALID if sex didn't occur,,,,
and because it was once supporting and encouraging the commitment and SEXUAL commitment of men and women who may very well create lives and families, little lives that in every statistic do better with a mother and father,,,, and even though EVERYONE is equally protected so long as they are male or female,, the definition was changed based upon what someones DESIRES are instead
it would be like someone wanting to be a soldier but being passive,, claiming because their personal disposition would keep them from personally joining, they are not being provided access to joining UNLESS you include in the military a provision for PASSIVE military units as well,,,
its a nonsense argument, but it succeeded,,,,
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msharmony
on Fri 09/25/15 10:44 PM