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UniqueandHandsome

Mon 09/28/15 07:47 AM

What is it with women not liking shirtless pictures of guys? I mean what female made this so bad, that the rest of the females had to follow it? I mean what is it with this dislike for shirtless pictures? Like the guys that women meet with their shirts on treat them better? Is that it? What a guy is not suppose to be proud of his hard work? He is not suppose to be proud and let others see it? I would really like to know why most females think this is such a bad thing? I mean would you rather a guy meet you weighting 300lbs and not looking like his picture?? I just would like to here a good explanation to why guys shirtless pictures are so bad online?

marshall570

Mon 09/28/15 07:56 AM

smiles as to whats happening on mingle laugh

TawtStrat

Mon 09/28/15 08:05 AM

There's something a bit comical about a guy stripping. The women that go to see male strippers may think that they're hunky but they're all laughing at them.

I guess a lot of them find it cheesy and think that guys that do that are posers. I wouldn't post pictures like that myself unless I was just advertising for sex. They don't need to see me with my shirt off to see how I'm built. If they want to see me take my clothes off that can maybe be aranged but they're only getting a private viewing.

Unknow

Mon 09/28/15 08:07 AM

PacificStar48

Mon 09/28/15 08:09 AM

FIRST off I don't follow anyone.

I don't respond to guy who post shirtless photos because it insults my intelligence to be able to know what a body looks like with out being displayed. That is true if he is a hard body which is not that fun to snuggle up too or the 300 guy who isn't so vain. Seems small minded that you can only see it as and either or.

Proud of hard work is one thing. Being proud of a young body that is easily manipulated to look optimum is hardly that big of and accomplishment; especially if he has few other accomplishments and is obsessed on one thing. Or has a job where he can be physical while earning.

I personally like a man who doesn't display his intimate appearance for every other woman to fantasize about and keeps some of that for me or at least in an appropriate setting.

TawtStrat

Mon 09/28/15 08:18 AM

Here's a question though. There was a body builder on here before and everyone was telling him that it was fine that he was posting bodybuilder shots because that was his thing.

If I was to strip down to a pair of shorts and stand on my head in a yoga pose would that be alright? I've got yoga listed as one of my interests.

ais69

Mon 09/28/15 08:21 AM

firstly forgive me if i make some harsh comments. but i think it is best to be honest about this.

i do get the point u are trying to make. but... beauty is in the eye of the beholder. we don't get to decide our beauty. the public does. if a man came up to me with a name like UniqueandHandsome , sry, but i'd vomit

And back to the topic of shirtless pics... YES , women love a man with a gorgeous body... but would we want one that is on display for all women and not only for us? women don't like to share. u should know that Sir.

u take care of urself
and do forgive me if i offended u in any way
it isn't my intention

SassyEuro2

Mon 09/28/15 08:39 AM

When gentleman ask ladies, not females, these type of questions, do they really want an honest answer? Or a free stroking? Or to tell them how them how they should think? Or an email list of possible partners ?

So...who the h@ll knows.? :banana:

ciretom

Mon 09/28/15 08:55 AM

I would really like to know why most females think this is such a bad thing?

"Most" don't.
"Most" don't care.
"Most" just form their own opinion, if they even see your picture, keep it to themselves, and move on.

I just would like to here a good explanation to why guys shirtless pictures are so bad online?

They aren't, except to a vocal minority.

There's never going to be a time when you don't offend someone simply by existing.

If you post a pic of you and a fish, someone's going to complain.
If you post a pic with you and other people, someone's going to complain.
If you take a selfie, someone's going to complain.
If you take a selfie in the bathroom mirror, someone's going to complain.

They aren't going to be the same people complaining for each case.
Or there will be one or two that are complaining about them all and you will focus on them as a figurehead of a giant group of organized complainers.

From your perspective they are going to look like "most" people.

But they're not.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Mon 09/28/15 08:58 AM

Sounds to me like you got anger issues and ego problems ...
You feel you are entitled to show off what you're proud of. So if it's your private parts, you're going to walk around and show those to everyone you see as well?
Yes I know, that sounds silly, so does your argument.
If you need to show yourself off in order to feel good about yourself, that says a great deal about you.
I think most women prefer a guy with something more to show for than being a show-off.
I'm sorry you had to work so hard to get some muscles.
flowerforyou

ais69

Mon 09/28/15 09:02 AM

I'm sorry you had to work so hard to get some muscles

Quote of the year award !!!

flowerforyou

red_lace

Mon 09/28/15 09:02 AM

Chuck Norris doesn't take half-nekkid selfies. Justin Bieber does.

Edited by red_lace on Mon 09/28/15 09:03 AM

RebelArcher

Mon 09/28/15 09:03 AM

I would really like to know why most females think this is such a bad thing?

"Most" don't.
"Most" don't care.
"Most" just form their own opinion, if they even see your picture, keep it to themselves, and move on.

I just would like to here a good explanation to why guys shirtless pictures are so bad online?

Meh...it's just douchey.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Mon 09/28/15 09:05 AM

I'm sorry you had to work so hard to get some muscles

Quote of the year award !!!

flowerforyou

Hiya, Ais!
flowerforyou

ais69

Mon 09/28/15 09:15 AM

Hiya, Ais!
flowerforyou

Hiya Crystal!
flowerforyou

1onlyaname

Mon 09/28/15 09:40 AM

I dated a woman she had the sexiest body I have ever seen and she made me feel sooo alone when I was with her. she was always in front of a mirror looking at herself. I stay away from picture perfect women I suppose women do too. ahh the curse of beauty!!