I'm reading a fantastic book on this subject: "The Closing of the American Mind". The premise is that Americans (and people all over the Western world) have been taught to value tolerance to the exclusion of all other virtues. The end result is that people are more likely to choose the wrong side in a fight, just because they are the underdog and we should be tolerant of them.
I'm a Zionist and completely support the state of Israel. If the Palestinians wanted peace, they'd have it. If they wanted prosperity, it's there to be had.
for me , these are two separate issues
yes, I agree that we lose the balance between tolerance and OTHER virtues when we teach one to the near exclusion of the others
yes, people choose the 'wrong' side for many reasons,, but mostly because those who presume to be on the 'right' side say so
we have an advantage and a disadvantage in the way we have so much media at our immediate access,, but the media also is often times 'slanted' towards whichever corporations or agendas are paying their bills
so , on the issue of Palestine and Israel, I don't pick a side,,,because I figure what we get mostly in usa is PRO Israel to the exclusion of all other perspectives which may not be any less reasonable or 'right',,,,
I do choose to understand human nature though, and as I said before, I don't imagine people anywhere would be forcefully uprooted from their home and consider those responsible to be much else but an enemy, by default
just in America, people gripe and groan that their tax money may be helping children eat or non working people have a roof over their head
imagine if it wasn't just taxes and they were made to just HAND over their home to them and go live in a camp?
,, it would never happen, it would be all out war,,,