WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT SINGLE MOMS ?
I can say I would prefer more distinction in the question.
I mean "single moms" is a huge spectrum of people.
Might as well ask "what can you say about welfare recipients?" or "what can you say about people that don't live in your state?"
I can focus on the far right of the bell curve and laud them, I can focus on the far left and condemn them, or I can focus on the middle and just be kinda "meh, whatever."
I also think it's also relevant to determine what you think the purpose of a mother is.
I mean if we disagree on what defines a "good" mom, or the ultimate purpose of a "mother," then any discussion beyond that is pointless.
If you think the purpose of a mom is to provide a template for social living, to find happiness in being a productive and positive member of society, and I believe a mother's duty is to keep the child alive and teach the kid how to keep itself alive, then at some point we're going to end up talking about the exact same thing but disagreeing and not understanding why.
Are you asking would I date a single mom?
If I am a single guy, sitting on the internet, looking at pictures of 10,000 single mothers and 10,000 single women with no kids, I'm sorting through and contacting the profiles of all the women without kids first.
If I am a single guy, sitting on the internet, looking at pictures of 10,0000 single women with no kids, 10,000 single mothers, but then I see this chick in person at the grocery store, and she's hot, and nice, and I want to date her, but she has a kid, I'm going to date her.
If I'm a single guy, and I'm shown two women at a speed dating event, and they are both attractive, both nice, and I want to date both, the major distinction is one has kids and the other doesn't, then I'm dating the woman without kids.