well Mama ...
Internet dating and long distance relationship with the phone bone is difficult as it is getting the cart wrong way to the horse for the marriage carrage.
One can find a person they like here ... and then when you meet up .. there is no chemistry what so ever. This is a huge disappointment and it really hurts a lot to invest that kind of emotional capital in a person you have never seen ... really.
As in most other relationship you meet in person .. then chat and hang out and go slow ... as the chemistry is there ... which I am guessing that is how you did it with the Father of your child(ren). You originally did it with the horse and carriage business the right way around.
so .. that is how it works best.
Meet a person on the net .. and if you hit it off ... check it out quickly over coffee or lunch. It is harsh to deal with it that way .. however it saves a lot of time and emotional disappointment in the end.
Time and emotional capital you can spend with the right person.
With that said ... you got a divorce cause you are dysfunctional and an addict. So you pick guys who are also dysfunctional and addicts.
Fix that up in you .. then you will find guys who also have had that fixed up.
Simple to say .. simple to do .. just a corker to get done.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
Edited by
cougarpuppy
on Sun 12/18/16 09:24 AM