How to stop being a people pleaser.
Always saying yes, always trying to impress people you dont even like. Always wearing that fake smile.
I believe there is nothing wrong with being a people pleaser......it depends on your motivation why you do certain things. If you always say yes or wear a fake smile just to impress people you don't even like, then I would say, you are not being honest and sincere to yourself and to the people. You definitely don't please people but yourself by doing it to your advantage. If you want to please people it should come from your heart that you really want to do it because you truly care, you want others to be happy, you smile because you want to touch other people , you want to brighten up their day or you want to create a happy and friendly environment. And if you can't please everybody, it's okay, just give it a shrug, don't get upset and don't feel tired doing good for everyone. When you are motivated by the goodness in your heart , you will never get tired doing something for the people you care about. It may hurt sometimes to encounter unappreciative or ungrateful people but don't let it stop you from doing good deeds. But I must say you have to learn to be honest with yourself too, learn to say NO, don't be forced to do something you don't like, coz by doing so, it would be a form of deception.