It's always hard being a single mom but it's even harder when you are trying to find love and juggling 4 kids as well. Most men run when they hear you have that many kids.
Kids visit our home pretty often. It's like going out except you don't have to go out to go out, at least for my daughter. More than 2 kids in my house gets a bit crazy, but she's got a best friend who sleeps over sometimes. I doubt anyone without kids would want to launch into that kind of chaos, but I also don't think that kind of chaos is a bad thing. It's you and your family, and if they can't handle it, there's the door. Dating isn't high on my list of priorities. We're already complete and comfortable. I'm mainly just here for the parenting threads.