I am a single mom of a 2yr old. It is hard to meet anyone! Anyone else feel this way? I am tired of playing games. Just want to meet a nice guy and become friends. Sadly cant seem to find yet!
it is going to be hard for you to find that person who 'loves' you .. and wants to give them selves to you .... so that they bond with the child from another person that is not theirs.
until you find that person ... and you have to be ready for it (right now, like Bristol 'Big Middle Finger' Palin you are chasing them away ... and I know 'IT IS HIS FAULT') it is better for you to hook up and play around.
While doing this ... do NOT .... push a string of guys through your life and put that picture into your child's head. Same for Daddy ... best he doesn't pass a string of girls through his life .. so his child doesn't get that picture in their head.
You have relationship issues and you are an addict on something .. just like your mom and dad before you. Until you can fix that up .. whenever you find a contender they will be an addict and have relationship issues.
So .... go play around on weekends or holiday ... set up your play time away from the child(ren) .. and engage in Adult Responsible Behaviour .. not thinking that you will ever find a person who will bond and imprint on you and the child.
Aim low ... it makes for less disappointment and making you insane with despair and despondency.
Try to have a happy life in the mean time .. that you have taken on this 16-year commitment.
If you want to go full ego and narcisstic .. then dump the kid and go find another guy to play house and have baby sex with.
Bristol Palin has two children from two different guys and never married while still a teenager.
Think the dumbie would learn the first time .. but .. nooooooooo.
Maybe she needs a third baby ... Octomom has a house full and she not married while being a porn star .. getting her itch scratched that way while bringing in some cash for the house.
These people LOOK like they are crazy or insane .. but really .. they are addicts and have relationship problems from their mom and dad .. who were (are) addicts and have relationship problems.
Gets passed down the generations.
Sorry for the hard news ... but it is better to know and do something to fix it.
Then not know and make it worse.
Try to think of it as the best Christmas present you have ever received in your life.
sumbuddie wear blind sea