Topic: Are there any good real men left.
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Sun 01/22/17 02:21 AM

There's plenty of great men out there. I've only ever dated great guys. They just weren't the right match for me, nor I for them.
Except for the last one I met half a year ago smitten

You just gotta remember and accept that you attract what you are exuding. If you don't like the result, well, then you gotta look at your own self.
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Lensimmo

Sun 01/22/17 12:44 PM



Why do women who wear low-cut blouses always complain about men looking at their chest?

Why do women who drop their knickers five minutes after meeting a guy always complain about men being after sex all the time.


Neither of these two statements are necessarily true.

It would be so much better if all of us were feminists.


Neither of the sentences were statements. Both were questions. If we were all identical, life would soon be boring. I totally support feminist ideals, but I don't think we should all be the same.
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chris2460

Sun 01/22/17 03:07 PM


Why do women who wear low-cut blouses always complain about men looking at their chest?

Why do women who drop their knickers five minutes after meeting a guy always complain about men being after sex all the time.


Neither of these two statements are necessarily true.

It would be so much better if all of us were feminists. (I am.)
(Sorry about the double post.)


I agree but I do have to say that if you post a picture of yourself in a low cut blouse you just night give some horny bugger the wrong impression
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Anu

Mon 01/23/17 04:38 AM

s i.m here today installed app
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freedomfitt

Mon 01/23/17 05:19 AM

Love this
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Riyaz11

Mon 01/23/17 05:21 AM

HI
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freedomfitt

Mon 01/23/17 05:26 AM



Even though the user deactivated I will go ahead and say my two cents. Seems like a good topic.

There are plenty of guys out there that want just that. From what I can gather, If a man is "nice" or "good" "real" or "genuine" or "not afraid of love or the simple thought of it" as you say, They usually get ignored or passed over. Over the years it's been my experience that a guy has to be just a little bit A hole.

I'm not talking about the kinda guy that beats on a woman or is overbearingly hard. Or is just after one thing as a lot of you say. But he is just a little rough around the edges. The type that is no one's doormat. He loves and he shows it. But at the same time takes no shyt.

She knows him well enough to know that if she pulls his chain just right he will show her the door. It may hurt him. But somewhere along the way, he will get another woman. He's the kind of man a woman can respect. That's the kind of man that gets a woman and keeps her.


You right.

In my experiences

Women are not attracted to the meek type of man. They want a strong man, mentally. A leader. One who is not afraid to stand up for her or for anything he feels warrants it. A decisive man with moral standards and backbone.

They want a good man who knows when to be bad.. and just how bad to be.

Love this!
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Mike6615

Tue 01/24/17 07:33 AM




"Women are not attracted to the meek type of man. They want a strong man, mentally. A leader. One who is not afraid to stand up for her or for anything he feels warrants it. A decisive man with moral standards and backbone.

They want a good man who knows when to be bad.. and just how bad to be."


Greeneyes, you're so right. I remember one woman telling me that women don't have much respect for a man they can walk all over. And such men usually wind up in that dreaded "friend" category, when they wanted something closer.
Edited by Mike6615 on Tue 01/24/17 07:34 AM
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aj4135444

Wed 01/25/17 01:28 AM

I fell men .especially of my age are getting written off as pervert without even given a chance to speak to any of the beautiful women here
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wellworn

Wed 01/25/17 08:49 AM

If I am a widower, that doesn't want a permanent relationship, but put myself out there looking for a female for adult fun only, does that make me a pervert.ohwell
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chris2460

Wed 01/25/17 11:04 AM


If I am a widower, that doesn't want a permanent relationship, but put myself out there looking for a female for adult fun only, does that make me a pervert.ohwell


I say perversity is in the eye of the beholder. If you won't want a permanent relationship and tell the person you are interested in that all you are looking for is adult fun, I don't see the harm in that. I say be up front and let the chips fall where they may. Everyone, male or female respects honesty.
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nolababy77

Tue 01/31/17 09:40 AM

That is hilarious, and sadly, true.
Can't take my shine though, #stilladreamer
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nolababy77

Tue 01/31/17 09:42 AM

That is hilarious, and sadly, true.
Can't take my shine though, #stilladreamer
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wellworn

Fri 02/24/17 10:58 AM



If I am a widower, that doesn't want a permanent relationship, but put myself out there looking for a female for adult fun only, does that make me a pervert.ohwell


I say perversity is in the eye of the beholder. If you won't want a permanent relationship and tell the person you are interested in that all you are looking for is adult fun, I don't see the harm in that. I say be up front and let the chips fall where they may. Everyone, male or female respects honesty.

Chris, thank you for your honesty.
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Neikiy

Fri 02/24/17 01:58 PM

Does age matters?
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melvine2020

Fri 02/24/17 03:47 PM

I am the best well educated, employed, traveller and above all with fear of God. hit me up only good ladies
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kikibon

Fri 02/24/17 06:02 PM

most of my male friends are really nice men but always meet the wrong women, ..I think people attract the opposite of what they are mostly:/
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r6c

Sat 02/25/17 01:43 PM

Good men are still out there ,
I need a man to always be there for me and care for me, am willing to do anything for him
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robgaviria

Sat 02/25/17 02:21 PM

I agree
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Sexxy7

Sat 02/25/17 04:13 PM

What's stopping from getting the man you want. Look around us, a man wanted a a house he built ine, he wanted a car, he built one. What ever he wanted he could and can build. But relationship, he has failed to build, relationship begins with God, he is the author and finished of relationships. If you don't have one, or if you have failed in one, it means you lack a relationship with owner of relationships. You need God first, and a relationship with Him, teaches you the meaning of forgiving, loving, caring, listening, understanding, u name them. Open you heart and mind, let your spirit decide not your flesh, listen to your conscience for once and meditate on these words. I need to have a relationship with God, before I have a relationship with any one else.