I would think being happy with who you are without putting the burden on someone else to make you happy.

Now thats worth repeating

Define a great life?

LIFE = the condition that distinguishes animals and plants from inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, reproduction, functional activity, and continual change preceding death.

Life is just Life, nothing more, nothing less.

The concept that life 'must' have meaning is a delusion. It can persist without meaning.

Human beings have complex brain functions. Our ability to grasp the passage of time gives us a different 'view' of life.
We recognize the past, present and future.
We gain wisdom from the past to make decisions in the present to affect a planned outcome in the future.

We place delusional values on experiences and conditions we encounter during the course of our lifetimes. We communicate those values to others and adopt others values to our own. We compare those values against others and judge our experiences against our own misconceptions of what we think our values should be, based on popular opinion.

We surround ourselves with concepts and objects that make us feel our lives are more than just the condition of being alive. We force meaning onto the mundane. The quality of our existence can be more important to us than life itself. Thus, we do things that are detrimental to the condition of life sometimes.

There is no meaning to life. There is meaning to our method of existence. There is meaning to the concepts and possessions we accumulate during our existence. There is meaning to how we effect others perceptions of our existence. Meaning, however, is a delusional concept based on relativity of the observer and constantly changes over time as conditions and perceptions change.

Life is a condition that either is or isn't. It requires no meaning to exist.

The Meaning of life buy PhD..wink..
To get from the beginning of it ..to the end of it.. with pissing off as few people as possible... finding happiness where you can... sharing your happiness with others.. falling in love as often as required... learning how to fall out of love graciously... always try to end on a good note feeling good about one another.. and that you have each learned a lesson in personal growth.. make babies.. but be good to those babies.. and the person you made the babies with.. are don't make babies at all... take time to enjoy your accomplishments..big or small.. be happy and supportive of the people around you when they do the same..
.. always each day.. try to be aware of The Human Condition...Get to know why you really do what you do.. it will help you better understand why other people do what they do.. try not to hate unless the other person really pushes you into it..lol... if you have to fight and you have no other choice.. hit the other person as hard as you can...frist.. don't go through life carrying ill-will towards anyone..
.. be happy with who you are because you will always be who you are...
And if you're not work on yourself...
.. achieve what you can don't beat yourself up about what you can't..
.. when you love love deeply and be able to do that and if you can't go away until you can.. don't let other people make decisions for you . Are you will become a puppet...makepeace.. with the fact that someday the ride is going to end... it just comes down to how you feel about it at the end...good or bad.. it's nobody else's choice but yours..

Faster horses, younger women and more whiskey

The film made by the great 'monty pythons' called
the meaning of life says it all, British sense of humour, not for all but says it as it is! !

Brilliant film, British humour at it's best!

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