Topic: Guys 50+, what is one thing that is a deal breaker for you?
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catinidaho

Thu 04/13/17 07:55 PM

All good to know.
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navygirl

Fri 04/14/17 11:35 AM

Deal breakers: needy, controlling, bossy, lying, abusive, and jealousy.
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Unknow

Fri 04/14/17 02:07 PM

A penis.
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D4Denise

Fri 04/14/17 09:08 PM

Deal Breaker for me is a PISSY ATTITUDE...geez some men are too high maintainance...
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Maxsterx

Fri 04/14/17 09:38 PM

I'm willing to overlook anything if she is sporting some cute nipples.tongue2
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IceCreeme

Sat 04/15/17 05:42 PM

I guess I have a couple of things that are deal breakers for me... one of which is Obesity.. it is unhealthy .. if I wrap my arms around your waist and I can't touch my fingers behind you ... you are obese...

Alcoholics is another thing... not against drinking generally ..dirty men.. not showering/bath every day, boring, terrible at sex...
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jordan282828

Sun 04/16/17 12:15 AM

For me. A big deal breaker is S woman who only wants to talk about money and careers. Also a woman who is """" dry """"". NOT romantic. At ALL. Is another deal breaker. And the biggest of all is a """" tomboyish """""". Woman. If she has manly or masculine tendencies. That will definetly be a deal breaker and also our LAST DATE !!!!!!!
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Snoman1951

Sun 04/16/17 03:39 AM

belligerent drunks
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latersbaby65

Tue 06/06/17 02:12 AM

wow.. seems to be we r set in our ways the older we are. and alot of deal breakers.. lol
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Hatesusernames2

Tue 06/06/17 04:38 PM



Most women have been with A**Holes, and don't know how to treat a nice guy. they try to change them into what they are use to, but what i don't understand is why would someone want to be an A**Hole.trying to change me into something i'm not is a deal breaker.



People tend to attract like minded people
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Hatesusernames2

Tue 06/06/17 04:38 PM


A penis.


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NavyRETIRED

Mon 06/19/17 06:23 PM

To me a deal breaker would be the loss of trust in a relationship. But I think with communications for whatever reason can be gained back. Relationships will be pull and tug okay. When going into a relationship get the cob webs out of the closet, this is a time to come clean, wipe the slate and start. Be honest up front cause hopefully your choosing a partner for life. That is what I would do when I feel the time would be right and say it that way.
Edited by NavyRETIRED on Mon 06/19/17 06:24 PM
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MiniKimini

Sat 06/24/17 07:09 PM


I guess I have a couple of things that are deal breakers for me... one of which is Obesity.. it is unhealthy .. if I wrap my arms around your waist and I can't touch my fingers behind you ... you are obese...

Alcoholics is another thing... not against drinking generally ..dirty men.. not showering/bath every day, boring, terrible at sex...
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etc etc...


I second all of this.
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Prairegirl

Mon 06/26/17 09:41 PM

nice!
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David

Tue 12/06/22 08:35 AM

being called "babe" or "hunny" I have a name, use it
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David

Tue 12/06/22 08:38 AM

asking for money, these women should have jobs or in school and get money to live on "Grants"
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Mike6615

Wed 12/07/22 06:58 PM


As a 50 something curious to know what the fellows out there consider to be deal breakers?

In my conversations with some men deceptiveness has definitely been an issue and always a deal breaker.

For me smoking is another dealbreaker, not merely a personal choice but health related as I am hyper sensitive to that (not to mention I cannot breathe as well).

I think that I am generally accepting of most things however I also draw the line with someone who requests money (haha, obviously) :laughing::laughing: For example the fella who asked for $2500 so he could pay an attorney fee in order to collect his nearly $300,000. Yes, sure. I wonder how many people these scammers and phonies approach before they find someone weak and vulnerable/trusting enough to do such things. Hmm...



I get these emails and I'm sure you get them too. Found this great response on the net:
"I like it when I get foreign emails telling me they want to share $4,000,000 with me, but need an amount to release their funds. I always email right back and sound excited. Then they tell me how much to wire and to where. Usually it's a few thousand dollars. So I email back again and tell them I can't wait to send the $5000 (or whatever amount they asked for) but before I can do this, I have to pay fees to the IRS so they will release my $10,000 tax refund. I tell them the fees are $850 and if they wire me the $850, then I'll get the $10,000 and send them $5000 back.
Then I tell them I can't wait to get the $4M and ask how soon can they wire me the $850.
Then I get back to work..."
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YukonGentleman

Thu 12/15/22 10:32 PM

Mine are similar to yours it seems. As about 85% of the women who contact me on dating sites turn out to be fakes, honesty is HUGE with me. Of interest, most of the rest are playing games, and that isn't fun either!

Oh, and smoking kills the deal for me as well. Many say they do it "occasionally," but smokers are smokers, and not for me!
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Mr Good Guy

Fri 12/16/22 06:59 AM


A penis.
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Taggedmaleone At Yahoo

Thu 03/16/23 05:35 PM

My deal breaker: They think I'm their ATM. Asking to pay their bills.