Topic: Love or Sex what do you prefer most in your relationship?
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Seekingtrueluv16

Fri 06/02/17 10:58 AM

Love or Sex what do you prefer most in your relationship and why?

I think this is an intellectual issue sometime need to be to discussed, whatever your take please be discreet in your explanation.
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matrueyear

Sat 06/03/17 07:20 AM

In my ( women) case , love first , and then sex.
In biology , function follows structure .
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TxsGal3333

Sat 06/03/17 07:37 AM

Both sex without love is just sex you can get that anywhere but to have a combination of both is what helps bond two people together..

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Tom4Uhere

Sat 06/03/17 07:52 AM

I prefer to express my love in many ways and sex is one of them.
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IgorFrankensteen

Sat 06/03/17 08:17 AM

The only reason why people try to discuss these as separate like this, is because they are having trouble with their own conception of how each PART of their love life fits together.

The absolute best kind of love connection to have, is one where EVERYTHING you do together is both sex AND love at the same time. Think about it. think about everything you've heard about seduction. Think of every woman who's ever said that she wants to be romanced before the guy dives on her nether regions. Think about every guy you've heard of, who tries to do some big thing to make himself look tough or brave or financially successful for his mate.

When it's all working, the reason it feels like sex when you just hold their hand, is because it actually is.
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Starhawk69

Sat 06/03/17 09:24 AM

Can't I have both, lol.:blush: I believe that love comes first because sex is just sex, even though it's a wonderful display of affection, it's all about what happens after a truly climatic session of love making.

True love and companionship revolves around how comfortable u r with the person u r with. Life is only as good as the person you want to share it with.

As much as I would love sex, 24/7, to me it matters more that the woman I am with is happy no matter what. :blush:
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Tom4Uhere

Sat 06/03/17 09:31 AM


The only reason why people try to discuss these as separate like this, is because they are having trouble with their own conception of how each PART of their love life fits together.

The absolute best kind of love connection to have, is one where EVERYTHING you do together is both sex AND love at the same time. Think about it. think about everything you've heard about seduction. Think of every woman who's ever said that she wants to be romanced before the guy dives on her nether regions. Think about every guy you've heard of, who tries to do some big thing to make himself look tough or brave or financially successful for his mate.

When it's all working, the reason it feels like sex when you just hold their hand, is because it actually is.

Agreed!

I often say that making love starts long before, during and lasts long after sex.
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amit77x

Sat 06/03/17 10:02 AM

Both complement each other.
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dreamerana

Sat 06/03/17 10:49 AM

When i see posts like this i always wonder why someone thinks it has to be an either or choice
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Sat 06/03/17 11:43 AM


The only reason why people try to discuss these as separate like this, is because they are having trouble with their own conception of how each PART of their love life fits together.

The absolute best kind of love connection to have, is one where EVERYTHING you do together is both sex AND love at the same time. Think about it. think about everything you've heard about seduction. Think of every woman who's ever said that she wants to be romanced before the guy dives on her nether regions. Think about every guy you've heard of, who tries to do some big thing to make himself look tough or brave or financially successful for his mate.

When it's all working, the reason it feels like sex when you just hold their hand, is because it actually is.

I believe I agree with this :)
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peacejohb

Sat 06/03/17 12:21 PM

love relates to sex, that's why we say love making.
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Piscesmoon02

Sat 06/03/17 01:00 PM



The only reason why people try to discuss these as separate like this, is because they are having trouble with their own conception of how each PART of their love life fits together.

The absolute best kind of love connection to have, is one where EVERYTHING you do together is both sex AND love at the same time. Think about it. think about everything you've heard about seduction. Think of every woman who's ever said that she wants to be romanced before the guy dives on her nether regions. Think about every guy you've heard of, who tries to do some big thing to make himself look tough or brave or financially successful for his mate.

When it's all working, the reason it feels like sex when you just hold their hand, is because it actually is.

Agreed!

I often say that making love starts long before, during and lasts long after sex.


^^^ This...all that is said here has more to do with intimacy, which is what I prefer. The closeness and connection that two people have, and it can be as simple as holding hands and having that oh so awesome feeling.
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angelordemon6

Sat 06/03/17 01:08 PM

Sex is what you have if you haven't got time to make love and amazing love making is from getting to know intimately and being completely comfortable with your partner
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strawbite

Tue 06/06/17 12:53 PM



The only reason why people try to discuss these as separate like this, is because they are having trouble with their own conception of how each PART of their love life fits together.

The absolute best kind of love connection to have, is one where EVERYTHING you do together is both sex AND love at the same time. Think about it. think about everything you've heard about seduction. Think of every woman who's ever said that she wants to be romanced before the guy dives on her nether regions. Think about every guy you've heard of, who tries to do some big thing to make himself look tough or brave or financially successful for his mate.

When it's all working, the reason it feels like sex when you just hold their hand, is because it actually is.

I believe I agree with this :)


I also agree with that
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knt555

Tue 06/06/17 01:48 PM

Sex when lots of love involved is great.
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scepticalsoulmate

Tue 06/06/17 07:18 PM

sex without love is like driving with nowhere to go....
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Pardeepsinghnain17

Tue 06/06/17 07:52 PM

sex
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Pardeepsinghnain17

Tue 06/06/17 07:52 PM

sex
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Wannaamate

Wed 06/07/17 04:08 AM

Agree
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arjunkumar124

Wed 06/07/17 04:21 AM

Sex U can get anywhere just need money... but love with sex you have to earn.