I see no problem with expecting able bodies to try or get training. I know too many that need it
Hate that people expect others to try

No idea what "Hate that people expect others to try " was to mean?
What I see happening here is the qualified at nothing are getting jobs.
The more qualified are often home applying to get professional jobs that have evaporated due to economy. Heck to be PHD these days in some areas of USA in other words. The more experience and educated the less likely to find a job.
I have been a catetaker for my grandmother (that passedl and now my grandfather. I get it but I still worked hard. I cleaned houses for a living when I ised to do medical billing. What is wrong with expecting people to try? Sorry if you don't get it, but I am in that position. I apply for things I have been doing for 20 plus years and get bypassed for those with a degree or diplima in my field. I get it!
I guess one of my priorities was college.
I never considered not going.
American Public schools were a disgrace even in my time of the 1970s.
Today...well....oh well.
Many blame the more educated for their problems instead of getting more education. After this 20 yrs you cited have you been attending school? sounds like you are great nurse candidate already.
You seem angry with the ones that get the job you want?
I really want a new Porsche but I don't have the $. Today.
I am not mad at anyone that has one.
You don't know me to say I seem angry....nice try.
I just believe in working and not expecting something for nothing which I have seen first hand. Don't assume