A bit of an odd one, never thought about it...
You can feel sorry for having hurt or upset someone, say "I'm sorry" and really mean it. Yet at the same time you may not really have done anything wrong other than upset/hurt the other.
Difficult to give an example, let's say both parties had different needs in the moment but didn't know it from one another. Meaning neither was wrong, but one could get hurt by it nonetheless.
If you then say "I'm sorry" is that right? Sure you are sorry for having hurt the other, but you haven't done anything wrong, not really. It was just unfortunate.
Would you feel guilty or bad, as if you'd done wrong, in such a situation?
I mean, don't we automatically feel guilty or bad when we say those words "I'm sorry"? Isn't that somehow ingrained in our system: Sorry equals guilt.
Freud or Jung prolly could've explained this... Anyone? Or your own experiences?
(hope it's clear what I mean, grin)
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