no offense to service members
I have military family and was a military wife
there is a difference between 'can sometimes go on lockdown' and constantly on lockdown indefinitely
comparing the mild list of 'restrictions' FOR PAY AND BENEFITS to having someone control every minute of your life,, is still quite ridiculous to me
not even close
your family can be provided for, you can leave with a positive mark and you are compensated
you leave with a potential retirement, plenty of 'perks' and civilian discounts for housing, education,,etc,, and with social status
contrary to prison where you are only given the basics to keep you alive to continue using your labor
and where there are no 'perks' whatsoever when you are 'out' and in fact quite an obstacle to moving on with life by obtaining housing, education, work
and where your family gets NADA
my husband not once had someone make him get up UNLESS HE WAS ON DUTY(during work hours) on the ship
if anything happened to spouse or child it was paid for by the military
my husband not once had someone else control when and what he ate EXCEPT ON DUTY
my husband partied weekends, even if he could not go to EVERY BAR he could go,, is the point
,, the loss of freedom is not even close to the same
it is a job, you sign to give of your own free will in return for what you are going to be COMPENSATED with,,,,
Edited by
msharmony
on Sat 08/26/17 06:52 PM