Im Asian women.I've married for 6ys. Im 27ys and i think im young . My husband is Asian man too. He 41ys. I have a boy 5ys. Im working everyday. But I always feel bored. My husband never understand me and he not really care about what I want. No gift, no wishing for special day... he seem just like his life... i live in Ireland with him and no friends no family... very congested
Hi there. I am no expert on marriage, but I have been in long-term relationships and I have some exposure to marital challenges in my career and from my grad school program. I would also try counseling. People change over time and since you are so young, you are certainly going to go through more changes and more significant ones as well than your older husband. That in itself is a challenge. It's easy for people to grow apart as they change. On top of that, it's already been 6 years. I would also look at yourself and not blame your husband for everything. That's toxic for any relationship. In addition to that, you may want to see if there are support groups for mothers in your community and you might also find some support groups online and have forum discussions like you have on here. It doesn't sound like you're bored. Rather, dissatisfied with your marriage. I can relate to living in different countries. Is there anyone at work with whom you see yourself being friends or acquaintances? You don't have to get personal with a work colleague, which I actually advise against, but perhaps spend a lunch break with someone just to serve as a positive distraction during the day. Good luck! You have a lot on your plate and a little boy to look after too.