Topic: Dating with depression
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maybwecan

Fri 01/26/18 12:03 PM





It’s difficult doing this and keep going at it when everyone here only wants to go on the forums, I find it very to conversewith people here because it seems like everyone’s intentions are not real, why create a dating profile if your married or in a relationship. And there’s a lot of fake profiles, every now and then I talk to someone cool here but it never gets anywhere because there profiles get deleted or there from a fake city. I guess I’ll keep trying but it’s getting repetitive .

nobody on here is seeking a relationship.

Not true. Some are

nope. nobody


hmmm...so he is saying that all the success stories listed in the forum section are "fake" and those people are telling lies...very interesting...
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USA2Elsewhere

Fri 01/26/18 10:18 PM

I have had better luck with klonopin than any antidepressant. This could be because I also have anxiety and the 2 illnesses are related.
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USA2Elsewhere

Fri 01/26/18 10:21 PM

How can there be NOBODY on here looking for a relationship? That would mean all who do are somehow always blocked or their profile is messed with in some way.
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SDSCFof2

Mon 01/29/18 08:47 AM








It’s difficult doing this and keep going at it when everyone here only wants to go on the forums, I find it very to conversewith people here because it seems like everyone’s intentions are not real, why create a dating profile if your married or in a relationship. And there’s a lot of fake profiles, every now and then I talk to someone cool here but it never gets anywhere because there profiles get deleted or there from a fake city. I guess I’ll keep trying but it’s getting repetitive .

nobody on here is seeking a relationship.

Not true. Some are

nope. nobody

You are also serious right? I don't think that you are a nobody.. you matter here.

what did you mean by that? are you asking me out?

You mean to go on a date or to leave here? which is which my answer is both no.. I don't know you and I don't meet people that aren't my close. Even if someone become a close friend if he's a stranger I only meet them in the mall.. then eat. Nothing more, nothing less.I only mean that there are still serious here. You said no body eh...

sorry babe youre not my type. cheer up youre young youll meet somebody.
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AngelHappiness

Mon 01/29/18 01:27 PM

sorry babe youre not my type. cheer up youre young youll meet somebody.


Stop assuming okay.. Did I say that I am your type? No worries you are not my type too.. Already met lots of men and they are a lot better than you.

Yep I am young, educated, wise, nice and genuine.. not a player and not looking for an intimate encounter... I am here to chat and befriend with nice people :joy::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
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SDSCFof2

Mon 01/29/18 03:32 PM


sorry babe youre not my type. cheer up youre young youll meet somebody.

Stop assuming okay.. Did I say that I am your type? No worries you are not my type too.. Already met lots of men and they are a lot better than you.
Yep I am young, educated, wise, nice and genuine.. not a player and not looking for an intimate encounter... I am here to chat and befriend with nice people :joy::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

cheer up babe. youll meet somebody.
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AngelHappiness

Mon 01/29/18 04:01 PM



sorry babe youre not my type. cheer up youre young youll meet somebody.

Stop assuming okay.. Did I say that I am your type? No worries you are not my type too.. Already met lots of men and they are a lot better than you.
Yep I am young, educated, wise, nice and genuine.. not a player and not looking for an intimate encounter... I am here to chat and befriend with nice people :joy::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

cheer up babe. youll meet somebody.


Oh babe.. I think this will be my last reply to you in this topic as I think it's none sense and it's going nowhere...

Thank you for that sweet, kind and thoughtful words from you but I am sorry, I already met many and they are okay. I am the one who's rejecting them because my heart is taken by somebody... he's a lot better than you.. he knows lots of things (cooking, baking, fixing cars, photography, architecture and carpentry) plus he also has a good heart.. he has genuine care and concern for all.. he's helpful, sweet, responsible, respectful and trustworthy... oh he's an engineer like you too but the difference is he's a computer network engineer... that somebody will visit me again this June 5 (with the word again... he's also from your country) and we will feed street kids and elders.. we'll not do that kind of thing that you're searching here.

Thanks for saying that I will meet somebody :kissing_heart::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: I thought I will never meet a guy like him but I did. I am not lucky babe I am blessed. I am nice and I deserve a nice guy :wink: (don't be jealous okay.. thanks for not liking me because of you, I met somebody :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:)... Best luck to you too
Edited by AngelHappiness on Mon 01/29/18 04:34 PM
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Frhe

Mon 01/29/18 04:48 PM

For me depression is an attitude on how to confront your fears and everyday troubles

I heard a lot of people says: I’m with depression !!

I’m going to put my father here as an example. He was an alcoholic, he stop drinking about 28-30 years ago, but he was in that state since the age of 17-18

Then I always use him as a reminder for me

If he could, why I’m not going to able??

Then, I guess medication isn’t the answer

The answer it’s inside you !!
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AngelHappiness

Mon 01/29/18 05:32 PM


For me depression is an attitude on how to confront your fears and everyday troubles

I heard a lot of people says: I’m with depression !!

I’m going to put my father here as an example. He was an alcoholic, he stop drinking about 28-30 years ago, but he was in that state since the age of 17-18

Then I always use him as a reminder for me

If he could, why I’m not going to able??

Then, I guess medication isn’t the answer

The answer it’s inside you !!


Yep it's not medication though somehow it can help.. the real solution is to face it.. admit that you have it, accept the things that happened and face it (easier said than done but it's possible.. been there done that.. had an anxiety disorder but God healed me)

Depression isn't easy.. you will face everyday battle but I admire them.. they're strong enough for facing it.
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SDSCFof2

Tue 01/30/18 08:32 AM




sorry babe youre not my type. cheer up youre young youll meet somebody.

Stop assuming okay.. Did I say that I am your type? No worries you are not my type too.. Already met lots of men and they are a lot better than you.
Yep I am young, educated, wise, nice and genuine.. not a player and not looking for an intimate encounter... I am here to chat and befriend with nice people :joy::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

cheer up babe. youll meet somebody.

Oh babe.. I think this will be my last reply to you in this topic as I think it's none sense and it's going nowhere... Thank you for that sweet, kind and thoughtful words from you but I am sorry, I already met many and they are okay. I am the one who's rejecting them because my heart is taken by somebody... he's a lot better than you.. he knows lots of things (cooking, baking, fixing cars, photography, architecture and carpentry) plus he also has a good heart.. he has genuine care and concern for all.. he's helpful, sweet, responsible, respectful and trustworthy... oh he's an engineer like you too but the difference is he's a computer network engineer... that somebody will visit me again this June 5 (with the word again... he's also from your country) and we will feed street kids and elders.. we'll not do that kind of thing that you're searching here. Thanks for saying that I will meetsomebody :kissing_heart::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: I thought I will never meet a guy like him but I did. I am not lucky babe I am blessed. I am nice and I deserve a nice guy :wink: (don't be jealous okay.. thanks for not liking me because of you, I metsomebody :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:)... Best luck to you too

good for you. told you not to give up. I have met somebody. I have five girlfriends. always looking for number six.
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MSmolly33

Fri 03/02/18 04:22 PM

I have also had the same problem the men send you messages then you find out that they are scammers or that their profiles have been deactivated or some don"t even fill out their profile it always say"s will tell you later
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Vera

Sat 03/17/18 02:29 PM

Please please, don't give up. You are at the right place. First I was overrolled by scammers. Thereafter I said to myself, okay, I will no longer expect anything good over here. From that moment I texted to others more easily. That's how God gave me a good husband and a ministry with more than 100 online sons. I am glad and happy that I stayed on here!
After all things which gave me depression, after doctors, therapists and medications, NOW I am accepted and I am loved. I have learned in the ministry with the sons, to set boundaries. I am no longer shy to say NO, or NOT NOW. Just like the video "I had a black dog, his name was depression". Sometimes the black dog is a big monster, sometimes he is a little mouse. I love my life!

God bless you!
Edited by Vera on Sat 03/17/18 03:24 PM
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Tom4Uhere

Sat 03/17/18 03:47 PM



For me depression is an attitude on how to confront your fears and everyday troubles

I heard a lot of people says: I’m with depression !!

I’m going to put my father here as an example. He was an alcoholic, he stop drinking about 28-30 years ago, but he was in that state since the age of 17-18

Then I always use him as a reminder for me

If he could, why I’m not going to able??

Then, I guess medication isn’t the answer

The answer it’s inside you !!


Yep it's not medication though somehow it can help.. the real solution is to face it.. admit that you have it, accept the things that happened and face it (easier said than done but it's possible.. been there done that.. had an anxiety disorder but God healed me)

Depression isn't easy.. you will face everyday battle but I admire them.. they're strong enough for facing it.

Let's try to understand the concept that everyone is different.
Since everyone is different, depression is different for everyone.

SOME people have a chemical imbalance. SOME people have a physical defect and SOME people are personality defunct.
While many times part of the solution to beat depression is a change in attitude there are people that need medicine to change the chemical imbalances that are physical reasons for depression.

What works for me, may not work for you and what works for you might not work for others. Its all specific to the individual.
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Easttowest72

Tue 06/05/18 08:57 AM


It’s difficult doing this and keep going at it when everyone here only wants to go on the forums, I find it very to conversewith people here because it seems like everyone’s intentions are not real, why create a dating profile if your married or in a relationship. And there’s a lot of fake profiles, every now and then I talk to someone cool here but it never gets anywhere because there profiles get deleted or there from a fake city. I guess I’ll keep trying but it’s getting repetitive .


You don't even have a photo up. Most people avoid profiles without a photo. You don't seem to be trying to date.