Thanks

Seems that it depends on what you're looking for... Sexy means sex, so only the body would matter, if you just want sex... The personality won't matter then...if you're looking to get married, then a both would be nice... If just friends, Then just the personality matters .
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great answer pretty lady
..i respect that

i would add the mind.

Attracted is a part of it. So is the heart/mind. Without both,won't work

I can't believe nobody caught this:

Sexy is physical attributes that promote sex.
You can't have sex with someone's personality.
It doesn't work that way.

Perhaps the correct query is

Which is more attractive, a woman's body or her personality?

In that case I would need to answer that both are important at the start but the personality is more important in the long run.
Physical traits are important when considering reproduction where personality traits are more important for companionship.

It really depends upon your reason for choosing.

Because looking at a brain on a Valentine's day card is not that attractive.. :)

Lololol Great answer! By the way, whatever the drawing is that is not as important as the content (message).

But wait.. I wish someone can give me a valentine card with a brain drawing.. lol.. I always want something unique.. something away from ordinary

Hello thats A nice re_acts

Nothing beats a beautiful heart and a sexy mind

well would you please place both of yours on the table so we can all see what they look like ss?

Over my dead ....cat lol and I don’t even have one you first?

if i had them i just might

You have a beautiful heart my friend but the other thing about sexy I don’t know as I guess only the privileged shall find out

These are the matters where experience prevails...

These are d matters where experience prevails...

Killer combo...and venus will follow...

Well I dare as a man to admit that I first take a glance at the woman, that's nature working that way. Hench that's the way this website works, first impression. You see a picture of a potential suitor, and what happens next? You can click 'Yes''No' or 'Maybe'. That's the whole game here. If you don't like the looks of the picture you automatically click 'No'. And don't be a hypochrit to say 'No I don't', we all do. I see it all the time at my own profile, as I want to date or to get to know a woman between 42-53, most of the 'yes' are younger than my daughter would have been, if I had one. None of them actually looked at my profile, hench they even don't know how old I am or where I live, and that's perfectly written in my profile. So yes we all first take a glance to one other to decide if we want to have a go or not.

That people won't admit to that is their own problem, and putting down clichées in answer to this question.

And fairly I tend to agree with all those things, because that's nice, works good in a group, and I keep on agreeing on that until the next time I see a picture with the question 'Yes'.....'No'....'Maybe'.

Adding further on that, I am a writer, columnist, novelist, millions of books are written about love. Romantically we always like to dream about that special person, waiting somewhere, lurking in the darkness. Many writers have written about 'love on first sight'......no author ever wrote about 'falling in love at first mind'. Euhmmm maybe that's a good topic for a new book, that aside.

It rather strikes me to get a question like that on a website like this, nevermind, that's the challenge.

How many of you have regrets, regrets to have clicked a picture away...making an end before it's begun. The answer is easy, none.
Cause that's how the cookie crumbles at this website, but not only at this website, mostly it will crumble the same IRL. There are exceptions however, making my point, some have a co worker, a boss, a neighbor whatever, you can live years next to that person without knowing you are in love, in love because you feel happy all of the sudden when he/she is around, doing a good job, whatever. Then the rule personality, attitude, mind, will be greater than 'physical attraction'.


If 'Falling in love at first sight', is fake, we can burn the books of great writers, burn the movies, the romcoms, cut away Hallmark's Valentines.

Love and 'falling in love'.....that's why it's called 'falling'...it's a process 'falling in love' suggests a 'movement to an ultimate goal'....to be in love.

Some cultures still have that system, love will grow during the marriage if you are in luck. Mostly the cultures where women have nothing to say, where parents 'sell' their daughters, sometimes even in the family, children of 12 marrying an old geezer of 74, and even unseen, they have no website where they can choose between 'Yes'...'No'...'Maybe'.

Mother Nature gave us two eyes....not one, but two.

Elderly people will along the way of life appreciate more ones attitude, personality, know by heart that a beautiful mind tops a beautiful physique...

But for now, here on this side, you may click 'Yes'....'No'.....'Maybe'....cause that's how the cookie crumbles, and we all do it by two given assets namely 'Our eyes and that picture'.

To be fair..

1. the op asked a general question. Not about online or real life.
2. This site isn't strictly for dating. It is a social site too. Many are here for the forums only
3. Attraction is important but outsode looks doesn't mean the inside isn't ugly. You can find that in real life too

thinking on it a bit longer

I don't really rank 'sexy', it just is, there is no more or less.

I believe a womans mannerisms can make her sexy. A womans body can make her sexy.

I think that sexy can be magnified if there are both. Or it can fade if there is too little of one or the other.