Topic: difficult finding love with 3 kids
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Greenerpastures

Sun 04/14/19 10:09 AM

it's always difficult. It will find you when you quit looking.. it will knock you down... Look for life time friends where you like to hang out. Friendship can last forever... much longer than puppy love
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msharmony

Sun 04/14/19 02:48 PM


could the number of kids be the reason for not being able to find and keep a partner?


putting things into perspective. I truly believe its hard to find 'love' regardless of parental status. society encourages us to be very ego centric, and it is hard to 'keep a partner' with the mentality of one ME, instead of one US. And that difficulty multiplies with every other life that is in that equation of US(ie children).




just my two cents.


Edited by msharmony on Sun 04/14/19 02:49 PM
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hupuppy

Wed 04/17/19 05:17 PM

try finding love with other adults
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Magic1

Wed 04/17/19 08:53 PM

Mostly if the guy is not interested in the kids part of the relationship, the complete package.
So be diligent, watch for signs.
Always put your kids first...and remember there are POF in the sea...you just need to be patient.

Cheers
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Liam

Thu 04/23/20 10:46 AM

its nt about sex,my dear, u cn alwaysa hv a cht friend like me,who can chnge ur mood and make u calm and always be there fr u when ur down,may be i can help u?
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ivegotthegirth

Fri 04/24/20 07:31 PM

Can we use ALL the letters of the GD alphabet please, if you know 'em!
noway noway noway noway noway noway noway
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SpaceCodet

Sat 04/25/20 08:42 AM

I'm doing the smart thing this time and not writing a lot about what I know.
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todw41

Sun 04/26/20 02:08 PM



Could be. Also, some might not want to date someone with young children. My son is 27 amd I am not interested in someone with young kids. It can make it difficult to make plans with the person


thats sad...iv grown lonely
iv grown lonely too. i am 41 never been in a reationship, lack sex life, nevver even really had a girlfriend! and i live with my mom and no kids.
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goodcommunication

Mon 05/11/20 02:18 AM

no
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Jon

Tue 05/26/20 06:21 AM

No shouldn’t
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Bbjohnny

Thu 05/28/20 06:04 AM

Actually he would be better off taking custody of the kids and start living the good life. Has anyone looked into wether the kids are in a good family environment with the mum and her potentially dumb fooked trailer park bf child abusing fook buddy??? Kids get killed kos of assumptions like this.... 🤷‍♂️
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Bill

Wed 06/03/20 12:55 PM

I am widowed with a 4 year old and can't seem to find a lady that wants to have a child around
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bye

Mon 07/06/20 05:31 AM

Hi, I am new to this site. I hear you Bill. I am 55 with two children under 10. It is very challenging to find women to date.
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vish11111

Wed 07/08/20 04:13 AM

nopes ..
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Spongebob Lover

Mon 07/27/20 01:45 AM

exactly,mostly they if u have a kids they only talk to u a few koments then ifvthey know ur a single parent then " thanks and nice to meet u goodluck"
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Ricki Donovan

Wed 07/29/20 03:38 AM

I am moved with your story, I’ll like to talk to you more or we can at least have a conversation before we get married lol