Humm the way I see it, it is their choice to do with their body as they choose...
As long as they are paying for all the medical procedures what concern is it of ours..
Only they will have to deal with the what they have done... It is no different then one that decides to have tattoo's all over their body...
Sure they may look like a freak but seems they either love the attention or happy with what their choices are...
Seems he/she/it must be working or they could not afford all the modifications they have done...
I bet anyone else that goes and gets a boob job, penis enlargement,hair weaves, tattoo's or even body builders that go over board taking stuff to make them bigger, would tell ya it is no one's business but theirs what they do with their body..... No different.... they have to live with the results for a lifetime....
Even tho I'm against doing something that drastic does not mean I have the right to judge those that do...
so where does opinions stop and judging start? We have a right to express our opinions, but not to judge? I'm having a hard time figuring out the meanings between the two...
someone is being judgmental when their judgments are power-driven, unempathetic, based on their own idiosyncratic values or tastes, overly based on other people’s character, and are closed, shallow, pessimistic, and ultimately .........
"have the consequence of making the other person feel problematically diminished" (psychology today )
I think ego has driven us to feel 'diminished' for simply needing to be helped. Maybe if we could take those observations less as attacks and more as advice, we would not be so easily offended and might grow even more than we will doing it 'our way' only.
there are no doubt mean spirited attacks, but there is also genuine observation, and people should not IMHO lump them into the same basket.
Edited by
msharmony
on Tue 03/06/18 01:42 PM
