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He loves his momma. Yes. He actually sees how much i love him

He sees you lonely. No. At age of 9 , the word of lonely has not been defined in his mind.

You worded your concerns like he was having a problem. Half correct. I worded my concerns because of guilty pleasure

Perhaps the problem is not with your son? I have said he is a highly intelligent boy. No problem there.

Children pick up on the emotional states of their parents. True

Are you projecting something that makes him feel a need to give you comfort?
He might just be worried about you? Lol... I am the parent , he is the kid. I worry about him, but not another way around.

Examine yourself.

I can not wait for him to grow out this phase so i can finnaly enjoy sleeping alone.
How can a loving mom push a scared of dark little kid back to his own bedroom! What is for?

Get him a nightlight...Problem solved.

It doesn't matter what anyone suggests or how they suggest it, You are not looking for a solution.
Good luck with that.

Edited by Tom4Uhere on Fri 03/16/18 02:16 PM

Unknow

Fri 03/16/18 02:19 PM

tom

matrueyear

Fri 03/16/18 03:37 PM

Get him a nightlight...Problem solved.

It doesn't matter what anyone suggests or how they suggest it, You are not looking for a solution.
Good luck with that.

You got that right. I am not looking for a solution on here. It is just a thread for people who like to share their thoughts and experiences. I know what is the best for my children.

matrueyear

Fri 03/16/18 03:43 PM

Get him a nightlight...Problem solved.

It doesn't matter what anyone suggests or how they suggest it, You are not looking for a solution.
Good luck with that.

You got that right. I am not looking for a solution on here. It is just a thread for parents who like to share their thoughts and experiences. I know what is the best for my children. Since i don't believe in luck, so you have your good luck back. :wink:

Unknow

Fri 03/16/18 03:47 PM

That's a bit harsh, people have been genuine in their response.
Usually people ask and share advice not try to make out their above others.

matrueyear

Fri 03/16/18 03:48 PM

Disappointed with what matrueyear?

Oh.... that would be an another topic, which I would not see your thumbs up.

matrueyear

Fri 03/16/18 03:53 PM

That's a bit harsh, people have been genuine in their response.
Usually people ask and share advice not try to make out their above others.

No harsh, no above others, just a little misunderstanding due to perception differences.

mightymoe

Fri 03/16/18 06:03 PM

Oh well, guess we've been of no hope, guess you'll just have to get tough and sort it yourself. are you sure it didn't start with you wanting the company while asleep? Good luck.

I am 100% sure.I am an adult,and why would I want to the company in my bed?

Because your lonely to?

I am tired, disappointed...

I think a lot of us are... flowers

Edited by mightymoe on Fri 03/16/18 06:05 PM

realuv20

Mon 03/19/18 10:26 PM

matrueyear, i think your right about perception differences but you should be allot more nicer to someone who has no other intention than help out in anyway. And if i may ask what are you disappointed about?

Missyfire999

Tue 03/20/18 03:38 PM

Personally, I think a nine year old child who doesn't like or want to sleep in his own bed, is a very insecure child. No child likes the dark, but are fine with say the door being left open and a light left on in the hall, or a night light in their room. Or if it isn't the child feeling insecure to sleep in his own room and bed, maybe the parent without realising, is putting pressure on the child to continue sleeping in with them, because the parent does not like sleeping alone, but that is totally wrong, expecting your young child to support your own dislike of sleeping alone.

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