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Robertr26041990

Thu 03/29/18 09:42 AM

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Im talking at a Arabic, she's from Syria. Her family died on a air strike apart from her an her sister. I think the reason is because they have so much respect for there husband, I ain't 100% why I like them. An I won't say "hot" but look very nice


Don't confuse submission with respect. Many cultures teach women to be submissive (not talking sex here) but all areas of their lives. They are considered lesser than and definitely less important than men.

Here is what I think the difference is after having lived in that kind of submissive culture:

Respect makes you want to be better. a better person, a better partner. It encourages you to say what you want and do what you want knowing you trust each other to make the best decisions. You are treated like an equal partner in the relationship. You are both allowed the freedom to ask for what you want and need and to be treated with respect.

Submission on the other hand often silences women. No other opinions allowed except for the man's. It teaches them that only his opinions, thoughts and needs come first. You are there to serve.And in return you get a house over your head, food and clothes and generally all the sex HE wants.



I will always respect any woman of any kind
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Robertr26041990

Thu 03/29/18 09:46 AM

Salam my dear it was nice for me to come here today and read from you, Insha`Allah and is nice to meet you and i hope you are doing good ? am fine now and may the peace from Allah be with you and keep you strong and safe, am very very happy in my life if this come to be real and i will always be praying that Allah will give to you the good heart to love and care for me and you will never regret having me as a wife and best friend if this is what in your heart , Dear am happy to read this few words from you and to use this moment write you after knowing you are there and nice because the situation with me here in the refugee camp where thousands people around me is very bad living and this is why i need your urgent help to stand and help me act on my behalf to receive me in your location from the red crescent and red cross relocation office here in camp turkey and i will be glad and happy, my dear nice one i want you to know that i lost so many to the war in my country Syria and this is why i move with the refugee to this camp with the help of Red crescent and Red Cross that come from turkey to help us out , it was nice here at the start as we where not much but now i want you to know in this camp there is no security or life for us here and all that i come here with from Syria are no more with me to live than the help from the United Nation and red crescent wish is not helping that much because of the much family that are here in this camp you know this? ,my dear nice one i hope now that i have you in my life if truly you are that nice one Allah sent to help me out from this bad camp to a better life out there with you and your family i will be very ok ,and when i come to you i know insha`Allah i will find happiness with you and your family ,
and my dear Life is very bad here because everybody is looking out for his or her own safety and i sleep in the women section of the tent here,and Since i have come to this camp thins has become so bad all the time and for the safety and security of women is bad, and little help come to us here is very bad and for my safety in Allah hands that is my happiness as a women here my dear, me need this help from you if you can understand me because we only have safety anytime workers from the Office of the Red Crescent or United Nation are around in the Camp and if they live the camp my dear we don't have eye full of sleep hear only the army that are out by the camp gate,i want you to know am using one of the Desktop Computers in the office of the Red Cross here in the camp and not have Arabic letter but i can use English to write and when is free because there are much family that come here,my dear i don't know anybody outside our country so i decided to pray and contact a stranger to help me wish is you and I hope you will not tun your back on me and you will be there for my release to you in your country by the Red crescent and Red cross relocation unit here in the camp because of my papers and i will love to know you more and see your photo to know you are there for me to have a good life at there with you and your family ,I want you to know i don't have father and mother husband i lost them to the war in my country ,and now i cant find my only mother sister and one friend that i know and i don't have home back in Syria now , i don't know what i do now ,i need you to promises my safety and happiness with you and i want you to know that i have spent 4+ of my years in this had camp life here and all i need now is true honest with trust and i know we will see face to face soon one day insha`Allah and i will love to here your voice very soon also to know that you are there real and ready my dear, i want you to be honest to register me with this nice women officer working here in this camp as a Red cross relocation office in a unit here ,
my dear i have seen what she has don for my neighbor to be in a good location in another country to meet her family and she is nice and help family to other country ,if you are for real and sent to me from Allah to give my life happiness and home as a honest wife insha`Allah you have to relocation me out from this bad camp to your home my dear and i will have a happy life out there with you and your family insha`Allah and she can help us with her office to call one another my dear as i need your true honesty as i will always trust and believer in you and your word to me insha`Allah .

Your new friend. What she sent after I told her I ain't a Muslim but i will practice her religion an she in a Turkish camp
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sariw

Mon 05/14/18 07:47 AM

Ahahahaa.. You are really like lecturer sir 🤣 good response
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sariw

Mon 05/14/18 07:48 AM

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Cool, but the problem is not with you or the woman, it's going to be her family!
Same everywhere when religion raises it's ugly head. take Ireland, Catholic and protistant, a bit more acceptable now but a massive no no a few years ago. good luck

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Idk but really like lecturer.. I like this response!
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SacritanII

Mon 05/14/18 06:32 PM

I wouldn't, but if you want to it's fine with me. Go for it and good luck to you.
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Larsi666 😽

Tue 05/15/18 03:13 AM

When it comes to love, religion should not play any factor. Love comes from the heart, religion is something, we are born into, something we can change for the sake of love.
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undrboss

Tue 05/15/18 08:17 AM

Assuming this letter is real, its perfectly clear what she wants

and by the way ,it would have killed you to use paragraphs Robert?

I find that you are what is the word?
anyways you find muslim women hot, yet youre on a dating site.

Somethings are not adding up Robert, and this woman who is Syrian in a refugee camp how is it that you met her if youre living in Romania?

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GalaxyStarz

Tue 05/15/18 03:00 PM

Sounds like a typical scammer letter.

refugee camps don't have computers or the internet.
Edited by GalaxyStarz on Tue 05/15/18 03:02 PM
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BlakeIAM

Tue 05/15/18 06:31 PM

Personally, I am a fan of paragraphs .

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Blondey111

Tue 05/15/18 07:21 PM

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Salam my dear it was nice for me to come here today and read from you, Insha`Allah and is nice to meet you and i hope you are doing good ? am fine now and may the peace from Allah be with you and keep you strong and safe, am very very happy in my life if this come to be real and i will always be praying that Allah will give to you the good heart to love and care for me and you will never regret having me as a wife and best friend if this is what in your heart , Dear am happy to read this few words from you and to use this moment write you after knowing you are there and nice because the situation with me here in the refugee camp where thousands people around me is very bad living and this is why i need your urgent help to stand and help me act on my behalf to receive me in your location from the red crescent and red cross relocation office here in camp turkey and i will be glad and happy, my dear nice one i want you to know that i lost so many to the war in my country Syria and this is why i move with the refugee to this camp with the help of Red crescent and Red Cross that come from turkey to help us out , it was nice here at the start as we where not much but now i want you to know in this camp there is no security or life for us here and all that i come here with from Syria are no more with me to live than the help from the United Nation and red crescent wish is not helping that much because of the much family that are here in this camp you know this? ,my dear nice one i hope now that i have you in my life if truly you are that nice one Allah sent to help me out from this bad camp to a better life out there with you and your family i will be very ok ,and when i come to you i know insha`Allah i will find happiness with you and your family ,
and my dear Life is very bad here because everybody is looking out for his or her own safety and i sleep in the women section of the tent here,and Since i have come to this camp thins has become so bad all the time and for the safety and security of women is bad, and little help come to us here is very bad and for my safety in Allah hands that is my happiness as a women here my dear, me need this help from you if you can understand me because we only have safety anytime workers from the Office of the Red Crescent or United Nation are around in the Camp and if they live the camp my dear we don't have eye full of sleep hear only the army that are out by the camp gate,i want you to know am using one of the Desktop Computers in the office of the Red Cross here in the camp and not have Arabic letter but i can use English to write and when is free because there are much family that come here,my dear i don't know anybody outside our country so i decided to pray and contact a stranger to help me wish is you and I hope you will not tun your back on me and you will be there for my release to you in your country by the Red crescent and Red cross relocation unit here in the camp because of my papers and i will love to know you more and see your photo to know you are there for me to have a good life at there with you and your family ,I want you to know i don't have father and mother husband i lost them to the war in my country ,and now i cant find my only mother sister and one friend that i know and i don't have home back in Syria now , i don't know what i do now ,i need you to promises my safety and happiness with you and i want you to know that i have spent 4+ of my years in this had camp life here and all i need now is true honest with trust and i know we will see face to face soon one day insha`Allah and i will love to here your voice very soon also to know that you are there real and ready my dear, i want you to be honest to register me with this nice women officer working here in this camp as a Red cross relocation office in a unit here ,
my dear i have seen what she has don for my neighbor to be in a good location in another country to meet her family and she is nice and help family to other country ,if you are for real and sent to me from Allah to give my life happiness and home as a honest wife insha`Allah you have to relocation me out from this bad camp to your home my dear and i will have a happy life out there with you and your family insha`Allah and she can help us with her office to call one another my dear as i need your true honesty as i will always trust and believer in you and your word to me insha`Allah .

Your new friend. What she sent after I told her I ain't a Muslim but i will practice her religion an she in a Turkish camp
she asked you for a photo ., so you have not met face to face ??
She sounds very desperate !!!!
Have you confirmed she is who she says she is ...??? Have you spoken to Red Cross .. ???

clearly her interest in you is your country and what she sees as your ability to help her relocate . ...it is far from easy .. Have you looked into what is involved and considered whether financially you can support her .

Perhaps you should consider a holiday in turkey so that you can spend time together before embarking on anything else waving