Do you ever suppose people condemn themselves and hell is the life they live?
The choices they make produce grief and misery such that their world is filled with darkness.
I know people who have married, raised a family, was ready for life beyond children leaving the nest, and then suddenly discovered the person they thought was their spouse turned out to be a complete façade. and now, they believe they have wasted their entire life based upon wrongful decisions.
I know people who from childhood to old enough to retire never knew they we were being abused. they always thought things went south because of themselves.
psychotic narcissists [whom I call chameleons] have destroyed marriages, relationships with their own children, even created a sense of low self esteem for their spouses because their demented ways.
when someone suffers from psychological disorders and have no idea how to identify with reality, they can merge with someone who basically teaches them how to seem normal.
ever meet a man who has children, was part of raising children, but never makes a decision to ensure the family is a whole unit? I know of a situation where this scenario took place. the oldest daughter [mentally ill like the father] was allowed to remove the mother and another sibling from her wedding plans, and the father [psychotic narcissist] never corrected the situation but went to the wedding without his wife and other daughter. the guy saw no wrong in this behavior. but in all honesty, the guy is weak and had no backbone to correct the wrong doing.
I said all of that to say this, yes, people are going through hell based upon their decisions. and it is a complete tragedy knowing these are good people who put their faith in SNAKES who beguiled them. some how hid the truth of themselves from their spouse. but when things unravel, the mentally ill forget to correct situations they find acceptable. and this leaves normally sane people with the realization they are married to the DEVIL!!
Edited by
iam_resurrected
on Sun 06/17/18 07:00 PM