I also haven't had sex with many different women.
I think my lifetime total is less than 15.
I don't really see sex as a competition and I don't see women as a conquest or a tally. For me, I need sex to mean something. I have sex with the women I care deeply for. To me, its the ultimate act of sharing and there is nothing more personal between to people.
I also know that there are few that think like I do.
I also know that even when there are those that share my beliefs, they may not have had those beliefs for very long.
I understand that I am not going to find a 57 year old virgin and I don't expect to find a woman that hasn't had a few partners in her lifetime.
But, at 57 I do expect her to be able to talk about and participate in interactions like an adult.
You also need to remember that there are vindictive, twisted people out there that will knowingly give you an STD. While that one person you are having sex with may not be one of those, you never know if she experienced one of those before she met you and just ashamed to tell you.
I totally agree...It's not a competition...far from.
All in all, sex is not something that can be filled up as eating food.
No matter how many you're having sex with, even after a pause of 10 years or having sex with throughout one's life will satisfy you without it being the right one or the perfect match.
(If you understand what I mean.)
For some people it is only a matter of being with as many as possible... The insecure ones.
And for the secure ones, that rests in themselves, it's not that big of an urgent craving or topic in their life.