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Topic: Balance

Toodygirl5

Mon 10/01/18 11:41 AM

Preferably for Women but Men are welcome to answer !

Connversation on women having it all Family, career and relationship parnter.
"The Talk," program.
Do you think tring to manage All is possible without something lacking?

What is your thoughts on parent bringing their child to work , if they don't have a sitter at times ?

There are a few Work places that would allow this.

Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 10/01/18 11:42 AM

Stu

Mon 10/01/18 11:43 AM

Well, I thought this was on one's ability to not fall over..

Nvm... oops

oldkid46

Mon 10/01/18 08:08 PM

Trying to have it all is very much dependent on your partner and career. Bringing your children to work is totally unacceptable unless the company has a staffed daycare facility!!

Easttowest72

Fri 10/05/18 01:02 AM

Since I've gone back to work, I only sleep 4-5 hours a night. I'm exhausted. I've stopped dating. My "fun" time is going to my grandson's football game and then lunch. Then it's grocery shopping, cleaning and home projects. I'll die alone at this rate.

Dodo_David

Fri 10/05/18 03:42 AM

Connversation on women having it all Family, career and relationship parnter.
"The Talk," program.
Do you think trying to manage All is possible without something lacking?

Uh, there is a difference between "having it all" and having a life full of joy. A person can have the former without having the latter.

Edited by Dodo_David on Fri 10/05/18 03:43 AM

Riverspirit1111

Fri 10/05/18 03:55 AM

Do you think trying to manage All is possible without something lacking?

No and that's okay. I'm not Super Woman, although I like to think so at times. I've expected myself to be super woman in the past and it always resulted in something lacking... usually having to do with my own well being because I am the personality type that self sacrifices to the extreme. Take care of everything and everyone around me first.... Not good or healthy!

The laundry can wait until tomorrow, I need a spa day happy

Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Fri 10/05/18 03:57 AM

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 06:49 AM

I definitely think something is lacking when a woman tries t do it all. Taking care of home. Children, spouse and Working Full-time.

When married I didn't have to do it all later as a single parent, I had had to do more. But it got done because I had to.

I'll always care and do for loved ones though.

Now I'm enjoying life and taking care of me. smile2

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 06:51 AM

Connversation on women having it all Family, career and relationship parnter.
"The Talk," program.
Do you think trying to manage All is possible without something lacking?

Uh, there is a difference between "having it all" and having a life full of joy. A person can have the former without having the latter.

That's True!

But True Joy comes from inside , not what's going on around you.

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 06:52 AM

Well, I thought this was on one's ability to not fall over..

Nvm... oops

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 06:54 AM

Hopefully something will change for you to enjoy some Me time.

Even if it's out with a friend. waving

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 06:58 AM

Do you think trying to manage All is possible without something lacking?

River you seem like a very energetic Person. You wear me out just reading some of your posts here on Mingle ! laugh

It's good to have goals and projects to keep oneself busy. Activity i is good for the Body and mind for anyone. smile2

Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 10/05/18 07:02 AM

Toodygirl5

Fri 10/05/18 07:05 AM

Trying to have it all is very much dependent on your partner and career. Bringing your children to work is totally unacceptable unless the company has a staffed daycare facility!!

It's great to have a partner who helps , I had one for years. Hard when that ended in my Younger years.

Many companies , offices have day-care in Larger Cities. Parents love it is so much more convenient. However, very expensive.

Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 10/05/18 07:06 AM

Easttowest72

Fri 10/05/18 12:42 PM

Hopefully something will change for you to enjoy some Me time.

Even if it's out with a friend. waving

Thanks

msharmony

Sat 10/06/18 01:23 AM

I think single people can have it all if that doesnt include kids. All their time and energy can be devoted to what that 'all' encompasses. I think once someone is a parent, it stops being about having it 'all' and you start being responsible for what someone else has and needs as well, which makes it much harder to manage having it 'all' on the terms that revolve around you.

Easttowest72

Sun 10/07/18 05:30 AM

I think kids are part of having it all. My friends without kids have definitely had an easier life. Now that we are getting older, parents are passing away and our friends are slowing down, it seems to leave them lonely. Having kids means you always have some thing to do. Future generations keep you busy too.