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Indeed woman who should have a couple of hubbies instead of the other way round. Men cannot keep up with several women, a woman can keep up with a few men. Like River said, they need a 'nap', break time, lol.
Part of me feels like if people want this and all really truly are happy with it, no skin of my nose. Who am I to judge?
But... I do NOT like women to be regarded as second-rate citizens, not again, we're just started to get away from that, and I CERTAINLY do NOT condone of women being used as breeding machines.
Apart from that, we don't need MORE children. There's plenty of people on the planet as it is. A normal amount of children is perfectly okay, but beginning a breeding farm, no way.
If polyamory is based on so called religion I'm totally against it as these so called religion -which make me sick to the stomach- all see and treat women as second-rate citizens, often even less than a dog.
It should be forbidden by law. Over here in my country it is.
The only way I feel this could be okay is if a woman also has the right to have more than one husband and if people choose for this, meaning NOT on religious ground as those aren't a choice but brainwashing.
To be honest, I doubt any woman with self-respect and freedom of choice would do this.
The only reason this was ever done a long long long time ago was survival of the species, having strong, healthy off-spring. In order to have that you needed to 'breed' with various partners. BUT -and that is always left out by patriarchal thinkers & religion- this meant that women too had sex with various men, not just men with various women. That was the only way to have a strong off-spring.
These days we don't need that survival strategy anymore as there's more than enough people on the planet. We're not on the extinction list ya know.
Would I go for that? I think that's pretty clear: no freaking way!
I'm not very tolerant of pre-historical treatment of women.
Thanks for your input Crystal...
I can’t say I completely agree with some of what you say...but that is OK.
Women are NOT and should never be consider 2nd rate and women are not breeding machines.
Creating a family has as much responsibility if NOT more for the man or the head of the house. He has to ensure they are fully taken care of...ensuring that both wives and all children have their needs met and not only their needs, but many of the other things that are NOT needed...so everyone can enjoy an abundant life.
As far as religion goes....well I HATE religion. It is the reason so many people are hurt. If you read the bible...you’ll notice that there is no mention of religion.
Man created religion and religion caused a division between people. Causing people to look at the differences and fight about WHO is right and who is wrong.
In the bible...there were lots of people who were in polygamous relationships and it was not a survival thing...although, I think that some of what you say has merit.
In some countries at different times of history, I do think it was a survivial thing.
In today’s world., People do NOT enter into a polyagmous relationship because of survivial, nor to become breeding machines.
It’s a matter of choice...and if a woman choses to be in a relationship because she believes she is a ONE Man woman...that is good. Nothign wrong with that.
And...if a woman bleives and chooses to be in a polyamous relationship because she desires the benefits that come with that type of relationship...
THAT is good too.
Thanks for your input.
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