Love can be bitter sweet as well...
Like when you realize you need to be loved
But push away everyone the tries to love you.
I don't do that.
Why would you do that?
I don't get it.
Seems like some kind of insanity?
If you understand love, you would understand that the only love you ever actually feel is within yourself.
If you understand (and respect) other people, you understand that the love they feel for you is real.
To deny them the ability to express that love for you is disrespectful to them as a person.
You don't have to acknowldge their love but you can't deny that it is their love they are expressing and expressing it towards you.
If anything, I would feel honored.
Its been my experience that when a gf tlls me she loves me, I accept it.
I might tell her I know you do but I also add that as soon as I also feel that for her I will scream it from the rooftops.
I have no control over who loves me or when they love me.
What I do have contol over is the love I feel for them.
Since I can't control other's love, I have no right to decide whether or not to they should or shouldn't feel it.
I just accept it as how they feel and let it go at that.
I do however have control over who I love andf I am true to myself so I will not proclaim my love until, and only if, I feel it for them.
To do otherwise would be a lie.
I don't require others to love me.
I only require that I can feel love for others.
If I can't feel love for others, I fear there is something fundamentally wrong with me.
Especially since I am a loving person.
If you are having problems feeling love for others, you might think about seeking some professional help.
If you could love but suddenly find it difficult, chances are you are dealing with something in your life that has not been resolved and a professional might be able to help you figure out why.
"Like when you realize you need to be loved
But push away everyone the tries to love you."
Sounds like a self-justifying protection mechanism.
What are you afraid of?
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