Something I've noticed about "Hoomin Beens," as critters in this respect.
They all seem to have an innate urge to hide that they are thinking things through.
That to me makes absolutely NO sense..
Not that you said it..just the premise..
I am all *about* thinking things through...much to the consternation of guys on dating sites and people elsewhere...who apparently don't do the same...
Sorry, I was referring to people who have been challenged about something, readily admitting to reconsidering. Not to people not thinking things through in advance.
I'm just talking about a very common discussion dynamic. About why it's easy to THINK that discussion and debate doesn't "work," even though it actually often does. It APPEARS that no one ever changes their minds, because so many people hide the fact that they are reconsidering, due to the nature of human competition.