I feel cheating on your wife is dishonorable. Not only does it eventually hurt your wife, what does it say about the kind of man you are? If you will cheat on something a serious as marriage, how can anyone trust you?

I don’t think sex makes or breaks a relationship. I think touching, cuddling, sleeping with your body parts touching on and off, kissing (real kissing, not grandma kissing), sexy comments as he/she walks by, a secretive slide of your hand across their butt at the grocery store when you might get caught, absentmindedly stroking their hair while watching some dumb TV show. Talking. About almost anything. I think these things help cement a relationship. And the sex will follow at whatever the appropriate pace is for the two of you.
Focusing on the mechanics of sex, without focusing on the things I mentioned, is a lost cause.
Of course, IMHO...

A good marriage is not built on just good Sex.

Unfortunately,. Some don't know that intimacy is not always Sex.

@bluegrass
I Know, I was putting it into my Own words.


Would be nice if dating sites had No married men on them.Trey shouldn't be seeking any dates. IMO

There *are* sites just for cheaters...
There's that Ashely Madison one....and I am sure there are other strictly "hook up" sites...

Yes, this *is* a social site too...but it's not a site to condone cheating, or any other bad/ nefarious behaviour, or ask for advice on how to do it and not get caught....

Evidently it is because it's a lot of it on here. Social means everything.
Except illegal posts like prostitutes.

sexless marriage


Is the biggest crock of chit line,
used by cheaters.