These days food is cheap and plentiful, but good company is harder to find.
Attracting a man, sure good food won't make him leave, but bad company will.
Women seem to always want someone who makes them laugh, and listens to them, and treats them like a lady, etc., which is all good.
Men aren't that dissimilar, in that they want conversation, and interaction on many levels, resulting in mutual enjoyment.
But we are not therapists and are not entertained by talk of your domestic or work dramas, and exes, and bad neighbours etc., (unless maybe it is a safety issue if you do hook up).
Finding even just one thing that you both truly enjoy, and can talk about it intelligently and passionately, is an attractant. Even if it is only cooking and eating. Several mutual interests and you are going to get close.
Do a bit of recon and find out what the vict/beloved is into, and take up that hobby/club/sport/Egame/to get close and interesting and noticed, (noticed in a good way).
If trying to share intelligent conversation, food, hobbies, sport, and entertainment doesn't work, then break out the little black skirt, or get flirty, or just get straight out demanding - (women can get away with it), that can be attractive, or slightly scary, depending. Worst that can happen is to get a 'no', and men get that all the time. No big deal.
I'm not 'typical' but I cook, and do everything household myself, so other feminine things attract me in a woman.
Also attracted to yachts, horses, and outdoorsy girls. And super models of course.