of course there are no absolutes that apply to everyone but speaking for THIS Christian
I think many who slam religion are fearful of the reality of 'consequence'.
a consequence is a reaction from an action, and can be a good desirable thing or bad undesirable thing. If I were to tell someone that selling cocaine could wind them in jail, do I want them to be scared? Maybe? But does that mean what I am saying is not a TRUE CONSEQUENCE? No. Is a warning not a way to inform people of things they may be afraid of? Yes. So, the idea that religion or any other belief that explains good and bad is merely about 'controlling with fear', misses the mark in my opinion.
another point that misses the mark is that although I am sure some go through life from a place of paranoia and 'fear', there are others who use logic that also are capable of rightfully 'fearing' what could be dangerous or harmful. This presence of the capability of fear is quite different than the weakness of being 'controlled' by it. The story about the tree, for those looking to criticize, may be interpreted as proof that 'knowledge' and religion cannot co exist. For those looking more deeply, it may be another story about REALITY., that the more we know the more we are held accountable for what we know, and the REALITY that poor choices can have negative consequences.
As I said before, I cannot speak for all Christians, we are individuals first all coming from different individual perspectives. but I and other Christians I know dont harbor on Hell nearly as much as religious critics seem to. In fact, my faith is about trust and not fear. Id compare it to the trust in Parents who have provided and sacrificed and more than shown their love for you. They may discipline you for different things, and the world beyond them will DEFINITELY punish you for choices outside its rules. But the bond of trust in the love that motivates your parents (at least for me) causes a reciprocal interest in 'giving' back to them through your actions, including the terrible 'obedience' that so many rebel against, which also comes from trusting that they have lived longer, might know more, and have these 'rules' for good reason.
speaking for yourself,you have a valid opinion about what YOU personally believe,but you are only speaking for an individual,not for the concept of RELIGION as an institution,which is something that is on a totally different level than a single individual's opinion,and is governed by a totally different agenda,as the institution is bigger than any single person,and is more concerned with the big picture.
because,when you look at the bigger picture,i am sorry to say that your opinions are not the norm to the people who are actually in a position of power,and are more concerned with staying in that position of power,no matter what the cost.
just look at the 'office' of the pope,and the catholic church....
they are the ones who sent the crusaders out to 'convert' anybody who was not 'christian' by force,and they were willing to send hundreds of thousands of people to die in meaningless battles trying to expand their flock at all costs.
BUT,since they were killing off their followers,they decreed that birth control was 'an affront to god',and all of the followers should have as many children as they possibly could,lest their numbers shrink,and they would lose the power that they enjoyed.
TO THIS DAY,the catholic church still decrees that any form of birth control is a sin,and they go into the worst AIDS infected regions of the world,and tells them that if they use condoms to stop the spread of this terrible deadly disease that 'it will make jesus cry'.
I think THAT is pretty strong proof that they do not care about the welfare of people....only in bringing as many worshippers into their church to increase their numbers,and their power to control things in this mortal world at all costs.
and,if you dig further into the POLITICS that are practiced by the Vatican,unfortunately,you will discover A WHOLE LOT MORE things that prove that they do not care very much about their worshippers...
only in staying in a position of power at all costs,whether it is allying themselves with the NAZI party during WW2,and allowing them to both shelter themselves,and their stolen wealth in their 'off limits' areas,to giving shelter,and protection to child molesting priests,just to name a couple of things.
and THEY are pretty much the largest religious organization on the planet!!
seems that there isn't much difference in them,and any other power hungry organization,doesnt it??
so,please tell me how an organization that does such evil things has only the best interests of its followers at heart,or is good or healthy for humanity.
because,while there ARE LOTS of individuals like you who do not have evil in their hearts,and truly believe in the good parts of what religion is SUPPOSED to be,they are not the ones in a position of power who directs what their agendas ACTUALLY are behind the scenes,and out of sight of the masses.