A guy who can both give and receive love
A man who loves to surprise me with little sweet things & gifts, and also likes receiving those himself
Can relax as he has peace inside, feels at home in his life and body (some ppl are restless because of lingering issues and tend to always want to be busy or going somewhere).
I guess comes down to having cleaned out the closets and is thus able and ready for new love. Give & receive
Yes, yes, and yes... it's amazing how some of us want the same things...
A man who teases me and is okay with being teased back.
One who also understands that sometimes I'm a little sensitive and will comfort me if I get upset.
A man who appreciates the way I show affection and the little things I do to fuss over him... like making his favorite meal just because.
YES! But one thing I have found is that if you have lingering issues from the past, sometimes your new relationship (if good) can help put things from your past in perspective and let go. Itโs done that for the bf and myself.
Absolutely JBH... and I'm glad it's working that way for you. We can clean our closets as best as we think but later find a couple cobwebs that we've missed. New relationships have a tendency to do that.
It takes two healthy minded people to work through that... to be able to use it as tool to strengthen your new relationship.
Wholeheartedly agree with you ladies!
So much so that I would put that on the list of "what I want" haha. If you can't sort things out in a relationship it isn't really healthy either. After all we all have our pasts at this age, and like you so beautifully phrase, River, there's always a few cobwebs left behind in the closet.