Why do I have so many 30 to 50 years old men looking at my posts and matching with me? I'm 65 years old. Where are the men my age?

Most of them fall in the same pot that the 25-35 women that message me. They are looking to "help" you with your bank account!!

Sad, but true.

Use the search facility to limit the age range, distance and more. Ignore those unsuitable ones who approach you.

Good luck!

Hi Liz .. the match function is just a random game ..as for the rest you can use filters to limit who can contact you but you cannot stop who views you .. just laugh it off .. it is a global dating site .. for many English is not their first language and they will view based on just your photo . Contact those you are interested in and ignore the rest . Same with message replies

yes I get a dozen a day young chicks

good luck

It's not only for money. Some young men think about the qualities of an elderly woman. She knows herself and she has life experience. With her the times for Babies is over and she will not bother him to building a house. Her life has stability. Her children have their own life. And now it is time to enjoy life. I am 63 and my husband is very young. He is very caring and loving, and he never ask for money! It's a true love. I thank God!

*In the forums is a topicof how to identify scammers!
Wishing you the best and that love finds you!

Search men of your own age group on the search function.

It works finding men in your own age group.

I agree with Blondey

Welcome to Mingle2, Liz

Liz, some men only look at the picture and that is all, and you don't look 65. You look younger.

Ok. Thanks everyone for your input.

Don't believe any of them Liz.All the men of your age are busy rocking with the 25 year old chicks who find us mature guys so appealing.

Personally I'm flattered by all the 20 something's that message me....and I know they aren't scammers. I can tell they are real and honest because they all say "Hello handsome, how are you?"

I get the Hotties in the 70 to 85-year-old range.

why must the men be your age? It's just a number and anyway, many of them are dead by now :-)

For a brief second you're flattered, then you realise that most of them want you to pay their phones with Amazon cards.

I guess it takes them all night to do what they used to do all night

Mine is not to question why.....mine is to just say bye bye.

Says the man who questioned my honesty when I said you were handsome!


OT... I agree with Blondey and rosie Liz. Just focus on the ones you're interested in and don't worry about the others, it's less mind boggling :)