I know I need more photos, and that I have to prove I'm not bald. And there's nobody to message in the first place. As for the name, if that puts them off, screw them. I love r2d2, always have, always will. It was his mission to save the princess, remember?
My real name is Scooby D2. As in Scooby doo is rhyming slang for clue. So I ain't got a clue, but my intentions are good. But the site wouldn't let me use that.
And really? You get so many hi beautifuls, I like your smile, that you instantly pass that by, in favour of, yeah so I totally find crotcheting and crosswords a blast, they keep me active, you know, and you should see my sock collection omg.
I mean what is wrong with that? You think somebody is attractive and like their smile, so you pay them a sincere compliment.
Frankly if they've dissapeared so far up their own backside, that they find that horrendously borish, and would prefer a comment on the state of agriculture in Lithuania, then I don't think they're the 1 for me anyway
And frankly, the fact I don't have a job, own a home, or a car, and have an incurable brain disease of a mental illness that doesn't even exist, is far more likely to put anybody off than a flatcap. But hey, people say they like the truth, but most of the time, they're lieing.
Anyway, sorry if that came off sounding vindictive, and thanks for the advice
See, *that's* the thing that I don't get...
The same people that tell you to change stuff are probably the same people that complain that people don't represen their true selves/ are fake on the internet/ dating sites..
(And, who cares if you are bald? Anyone who would is a shallow person, and, while everyone is entitled to their prefernces...if finding out you are bald is a deal breaker..do you want to be around them anyway?
Then, *this* comment of yours:
"nd really? You get so many hi beautifuls, I like your smile, that you instantly pass that by"
I do not get "tons" of messages, but the ones I do get that start that way are always, always a scammer...
(plus, I am not smiling in my pictures..LOL)
Someone 700+ miles away..nothing on their profile..they are always widowed....
I do a reverse image serch...and find that the pictures they have are on several other sites, and have been reported as a scammer.
Plus, scammers seem to think flattery will get them in a woman's good graces, which is why they do that..
Of the very, very few spontaneous message I have recieved on this or any of the sites..the ones from real legit guys do not start that way..they either say "hi", or something bout my profile.
Just my experience.
Then, you said:
" But hey, people say they like the truth, but most of the time, they're lieing."
See my very first comment.
I refuse tyo be fake, coy, engage in subterfuge to "attratc" someone, because that is not being truthful and sincere...
And I;d rather someone like me for the authentic me...not some fake image I'd put out there..
I had 2 wonderful ling terms, and am now a widow, so..guys that dig *me* are out there...just harder to find..
And I am OK with that..
I don't want to have to change/ do complete makeover to "get" someone...anbd I certainly wouldn;t want a *guy* to do that to attract me..
Because our real selves will come out eventually, and better to start of with honesty than a lie.