Topic: Most people that are on mingle are in someway lonely
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 03:24 AM

I agree
Majority is of lonely people
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NotPay4Play

Sat 04/13/19 04:06 AM

Imo. Not really. Most just use it as an alternative to fb.
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Larsi666 😽

Sat 04/13/19 04:09 AM

I am not lonely at all. But others might feel that way.
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Riverspirit1111

Sat 04/13/19 04:13 AM

Not lonely either.. I stay because I made friends here and it's a great way to meet others from all over the world.

Are you lonely radhyee?
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TxsGal3333

Sat 04/13/19 05:16 AM

Maybe you are not sure where you get that idea..

Myself I'm never lonely...I may be alone but far from being lonely..
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Greenerpastures

Sat 04/13/19 05:19 AM

Nope, not me either
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Seakolony

Sat 04/13/19 05:24 AM

Not lonely
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taran008

Sat 04/13/19 05:57 AM

hello \
nice to here you that now u r not lonely
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 05:57 AM

At times
Less social media interactions
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taran008

Sat 04/13/19 05:58 AM

yah!
your statment is true but if you are lonely then we can become good frnds
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 06:02 AM

Everybody has its own perspective
If you were not lonely then why at the first place you started using this dating site
Instead of Facebook
And other established sites
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 06:05 AM

Thanks bro
Really appreciate your approach
Towards this forum:thumbsup_tone1::thumbsup_tone1::blush::blush:
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TxsGal3333

Sat 04/13/19 06:22 AM


Everybody has its own perspective
If you were not lonely then why at the first place you started using this dating site
Instead of Facebook
And other established sites


Humm cause this place is Not just a Dating site it is a Dating /Social site most use the forums for the Social part of it to interact with others..

Just cause you are on this site or any site does not mean you are lonely or alone.. Which there is a difference between the two..Some just like to interact with those from all over..

To me Facebook is only my family and friends...
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ciretom

Sat 04/13/19 06:50 AM

Most people that are on mingle are in someway lonely
I agree
Majority is of lonely people

I agree too, since what was stated was "someway" lonely.

There is no reason to seek out interaction with others (most especially strangers or shallow relationships) unless there is "someway" feelings of loneliness, or it's necessitated by another purpose (e.g. to do what you need to do for a job/hobby and interaction is necessary to accomplish that).

Since the sole purpose and function of this site is interacting with people in someway (directly, indirectly via viewing profiles/posts, or passively) then in order to come here there is some desire and a conscious willing choice to interact with people.

But if you are defining "someway lonely" or "lonely" as desperately lonely, or wallowing in loneliness, then I'd disagree.

Any seeking out of interaction with others is driven by "someway" degree of loneliness (unless driven by ulterior motives, like to ask for money, then the money can be the motive and people are perceived to be the easiest path to that money and there is no loneliness involved, although a case could be made that there is in "someway" a level of loneliness which influenced the person to perceive other people as a means to money and they are seeking out the interaction as an additional fulfillment).



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Larsi666 😽

Sat 04/13/19 06:53 AM



Everybody has its own perspective
If you were not lonely then why at the first place you started using this dating site
Instead of Facebook
And other established sites


Humm cause this place is Not just a Dating site it is a Dating /Social site most use the forums for the Social part of it to interact with others..

Just cause you are on this site or any site does not mean you are lonely or alone.. Which there is a difference between the two..Some just like to interact with those from all over..

To me Facebook is only my family and friends...



For many new users it is a dating site though. At least for search engines it is listed under parameters, such as 'completely free dating' ... at least it was over a year ago when I joined.
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Freebird Deluxe

Sat 04/13/19 07:35 AM

No bot lonely or sad I just want to share a small part of my time with another
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Riverspirit1111

Sat 04/13/19 09:07 AM


At times
Less social media interactions


I'm not sure about your country but here there's lots of things you can do in the community to help with loneliness.

If you're talking about being lonely for someone special in your life, then yes, I believe most experience being lonely for that from time to time.

I admit there are times when I have, although that's my own doing because I can't expect to meet someone if I don't go anywhere.

The sites, like Mingle, are nice for social interaction and can help with loneliness but the only thing that truly helps is being proactive with inviting other's into your life. That means either actively seeking online or getting out in public and participating in social gatherings that focus on singles so you can meet single women/men.
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 10:49 AM


Most people that are on mingle are in someway lonely
I agree
Majority is of lonely people

I agree too, since what was stated was "someway" lonely.

There is no reason to seek out interaction with others (most especially strangers or shallow relationships) unless there is "someway" feelings of loneliness, or it's necessitated by another purpose (e.g. to do what you need to do for a job/hobby and interaction is necessary to accomplish that).

Since the sole purpose and function of this site is interacting with people in someway (directly, indirectly via viewing profiles/posts, or passively) then in order to come here there is some desire and a conscious willing choice to interact with people.

But if you are defining "someway lonely" or "lonely" as desperately lonely, or wallowing in loneliness, then I'd disagree.

Any seeking out of interaction with others is driven by "someway" degree of loneliness (unless driven by ulterior motives, like to ask for money, then the money can be the motive and people are perceived to be the easiest path to that money and there is no loneliness involved, although a case could be made that there is in "someway" a level of loneliness which influenced the person to perceive other people as a means to money and they are seeking out the interaction as an additional fulfillment).





Totally agree:blush::blush:
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 10:50 AM



At times
Less social media interactions


I'm not sure about your country but here there's lots of things you can do in the community to help with loneliness.

If you're talking about being lonely for someone special in your life, then yes, I believe most experience being lonely for that from time to time.

I admit there are times when I have, although that's my own doing because I can't expect to meet someone if I don't go anywhere.

The sites, like Mingle, are nice for social interaction and can help with loneliness but the only thing that truly helps is being proactive with inviting other's into your life. That means either actively seeking online or getting out in public and participating in social gatherings that focus on singles so you can meet single women/men.



I agree:thumbsup_tone1:
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radhyee

Sat 04/13/19 10:51 AM

Thanku all
For sharing your vision
On this topic
Cheers:beers:🥃:meat_on_bone: