I dunno.
I'm in a relationship and I have lots of sex.
Sex is great.
WTH is wrong with sex?

I guess it all depends on how deluded you are about why people get into intimate relationships.
Sorry, sex is fun.

While there usually needs to be something else happening besides the sex to make a relationship work sex is usually the driving factor or you are lying to yourself.
And if you are Mother Superior or Father Abstinence, you really shouldn't be looking online for a date should you?

You're either turned on or you're not.
If you're not, move on, if you are, act on it.
The details usually fill themselves in later.

AMEN.
I don't understand those who think acting uninterested will make someone chase you more..
"Play hard to get"
Sweetie, we're not in Jr High anymore..we are (presumedly) mature adults...lets quit with the juvenile games.

Like you said, if "act" like you're not interested...fine....bye....not gonna beg..



Come sit by me.
Numerous profiles, short, long..
Different pics, or no pic...

Same results...zip, zero, nada..

The one constant seems to be no one is capable of conversation...
And, the 2 people I gave the benefit of the doubt, that said they are no good at online chat/ typing...OK, lets try phone or meeting in person..
Thay both were just as lazy/ incapable of any worthwhile conversation....
I can't learn anything about YOU if YOU won't contribute to the conversation.
I ask things about you as a way of getting to know you...and getting 1-2 word answers....it's a waste of my time.

I have had 2 excellent long terms (am a widow now)...so i know how good, quality men act...
Sadly, i have yet to run across any.
There may be some, I would have no way to know, as they've either ignored my initial message, or just aren't interested enough to make their *own* initial message.

The fact he asked the question and then cancelled the date speaks volumes, you were very wise in your decision, a genuine guy would have done neither of those things. A first date for me is to make a good impression, have a nice time and discover if we both want a second date, which is probably much the same for most guys in my opinion.

Good that you ditched him. Getting intimate needs more than just a cup of coffee. JMO

The first a real man will treat you
Like a lady let you get to know
Him and not push you for anything

I am free

hii Beautiful
can i say something
u know that all boys same things
but u dont know some boys different things like me for u
so thanks dear mam
I slute u beautiful

I think if you spent as much time trying to find the man that suits you as you do complaining about the men that aren’t to your liking, you might actually attract him. ;)
I wish you the best of luck. The men that aren’t what you describe can pick up on your negative generalizations very easily and will run for the hills probably before the first date.
Not being rude, just being honest.

that's just it

yes

Hey , Angel!! how are you doing

see madam we boys do get attracted by looking at girls
it might be just a state of mind for that instance ,we do like to care for a girl who is our friend and treat them like they are our's only(i meant we get possessive)

Yup its true he only wanted sex. Rather move on to the next till you find what you looking for and need in a relationship.

Thread was posted THREE MONTHS AGO! OP is probably married and expecting twins by now.

Now you tell me! Lol just kidding just kidding

I expect to be treated with kindness and respect. If all they want is sex they can go get a hooker. Plain and simple

I tend to agree with what rosie said. I would avoid men who are traveling through your town or on a trip and want to meet up with you. They most likely want a one time bed partner.

hey now cat some of us actually travel for a living and would actually like to meet fellow forums posters.