Thank you for all your advises opinions and suggestions...i dont want to be rude to be anyone...and i was trying to be nice as much as possible...if i ask someone to meet personally its because im interested to know him more deeply...i want to observe his manners ...how he talked and carry conversation...i can see from staring in his eyes his sincerity or if he has a good intention...and i can sense from his personality what kind of person he is...old school dating is to meet the person face to face....observe each other if you have common interest...but asking someone to have lunch or dinner or agree with someone to go out...doesnt mean that i give signal that its okey to have sex with that person....sorry but its really rude for me asking me for that....very disrespectful....im old, nothing special and not perfect but not all women are the same...be careful because i am being offended...hes gone for good....i dont care ....those kind of person dont care about someones feelings anyway....or maybe i just dont really understand what he really meant....sorry....maybe he is a nice person too ... not just im a best match for him...simple as that...