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Goofball73

Mon 08/19/19 12:25 PM


why do they seem to avoid a normal woman? they say they dont want drama yet seek dramatic younger women with nothing but their looks going for them.


I got news for you. Both women and men have drama, so more so than others. I simply look for a woman who has about 75% of her stuff together. That other 25% is reserved for her going all crazy and men heading out to the golf course. laugh laugh laugh
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McJerry

Wed 08/21/19 04:43 PM

Most times trust and loyalty is the key to all successful relationships
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Alucard1904

Wed 08/21/19 05:02 PM

Have dated older women they are easy going.
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Blondey111

Wed 08/21/19 05:44 PM


They say the "Older the fiddle, the sweeter the tune" smokin winking
you are talking about musical instruments laugh laugh just clarifying biggrin waving
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motowndowntown

Wed 08/21/19 05:49 PM


OP has left the building...

another one of those threads where the OP starting it does not participate at all...I see no response to good and thoughtful comments from the Mingle members...

makes me question whether the OP just slapped words together with very little thought and tossed it in the pot with no intention of engaging in any discussion...

but of course, i could be wrong...


It's also a months old thread that SOMEBODY dug up from the archives.
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ivegotthegirth

Wed 08/21/19 05:50 PM


Define normal


Normal is just a setting on a washing machine.

I date lots of older women, guess I fit in that category since I'll be 63 in a couple of weeks. I can tell everyone that they are just as individual and maybe more so than younger women.

And yes I'm "real" I think, I just walked by a mirror and saw my reflection so I must be. My photos are real and my current profile pic will be a year old next month. I'll never ask you for money in any form, I've got that covered.


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Smartazzjohn

Wed 08/21/19 06:09 PM


why do they seem to avoid a normal woman? they say they dont want drama yet seek dramatic younger women with nothing but their looks going for them.



Maybe the problem is older men aren't attracted to older women who create drama by complaining about want older men want. whoa
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ivegotthegirth

Wed 08/21/19 06:43 PM



why do they seem to avoid a normal woman? they say they dont want drama yet seek dramatic younger women with nothing but their looks going for them.



Maybe the problem is older men aren't attracted to older women who create drama by complaining about want older men want. whoa


Could be and a good point John, I am attracted to women in general AND women my own age. If they're into drama I just get away quickly. I'm not interested in getting involved with other peoples drama, life is hard enough without it.
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Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚

Wed 08/21/19 08:36 PM



They say the "Older the fiddle, the sweeter the tune" smokin winking
you are talking about musical instruments laugh laugh just clarifying biggrin waving

bigsmile Of course spock
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Jim

Thu 08/22/19 05:44 PM

Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .
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Blondey111

Thu 08/22/19 06:59 PM

I have a riddle for you Jim ....what do you call a man who uses women for sex and exploits vulnerable , gullible women .

There is nothing wrong with no-commitment sex as long as that is clearly conveyed right from the start .
Gullibility is generally grounded in trust .,..... I wonder what makes a woman trust a man on a dating site enough to want to have sex with him ??? He must have quite the skill and charm :wink:

Are men as Gullible when women just use them for sex ??? Does the male ego even acknowledge this as a possibility ? waving
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Smartazzjohn

Thu 08/22/19 07:07 PM


I have a riddle for you Jim ....what do you call a man who uses women for sex and exploits vulnerable , gullible women .

There is nothing wrong with no-commitment sex as long as that is clearly conveyed right from the start .
Gullibility is generally grounded in trust .,..... I wonder what makes a woman trust a man on a dating site enough to want to have sex with him ??? He must have quite the skill and charm :wink:

Are men as Gullible when women just use them for sex ??? Does the male ego even acknowledge this as a possibility ? waving



I don't know if a man feels gullible if finds out that woman just used him for sex......but I'm willing to find out. laugh

Just kidding, I'm not really a dirty old man, I just play one online.tongue2
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Blondey111

Thu 08/22/19 07:25 PM



I have a riddle for you Jim ....what do you call a man who uses women for sex and exploits vulnerable , gullible women .

There is nothing wrong with no-commitment sex as long as that is clearly conveyed right from the start .
Gullibility is generally grounded in trust .,..... I wonder what makes a woman trust a man on a dating site enough to want to have sex with him ??? He must have quite the skill and charm :wink:

Are men as Gullible when women just use them for sex ??? Does the male ego even acknowledge this as a possibility ? waving



I don't know if a man feels gullible if finds out that woman just used him for sex......but I'm willing to find out. laugh

Just kidding, I'm not really a dirty old man, I just play one online.tongue2
making me laugh funny man waving
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Bastet127

Thu 08/22/19 07:26 PM


Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .


Your post certainly explains why you’re still single.
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Roger

Thu 08/22/19 07:27 PM

I think everyone desires to be with someone that is beautiful but a person can be beautiful on the inside and be just as attractive. Yes, younger women are usually more attractive but what is the tradeoff? Drama, money, help raise and support my kids? By the time a man reaches 60, he is tired of the drama and raising someone else's kids. What's normal? Normal can mean different things at different ages. Go figure! :)
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oldkid46

Thu 08/22/19 07:29 PM



Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .


Your post certainly explains why you’re still single.

Perhaps he enjoys being single, wishes to keep his life that way, and enjoys sex with multiple women?
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Blondey111

Thu 08/22/19 07:31 PM



Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .


Your post certainly explains why you’re still single.
interesting he considers it a date laugh laugh laugh slaphead
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Bastet127

Thu 08/22/19 07:35 PM




Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .


Your post certainly explains why you’re still single.

Perhaps he enjoys being single, wishes to keep his life that way, and enjoys sex with multiple women?


I know people like that, I could be one of them. You can do that without being an
utter douchebag though.

((Blondey haha haha!!!))
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ivegotthegirth

Thu 08/22/19 07:53 PM


Has a serious philanderer with a very shallow interest in women other than to **** them on a no strings attached basis I'm constantly astonsihed how stupidly guulable women are, particularly those women will failed marriages who have some misguided hope that will find love with a complete stranger on a free dating site. Free dating sites see are simply an opportunity for men to shag desperate women seeking adoration. I've unashamendly met and dated women and had sex with the conveyor belt of stupid women from sites like this.... The sad truth is men will want to **** without the baggage and there's plenty of opportunity .


Yeah BUT you don't need to be a lying disrespectful little s*it to date and have sex with multiple women!
It's guys like you that make women think that ALL men can't be trusted like you, you're an embarrassment to our gender!
You'll learn about KARMA someday boy.
Edited by ivegotthegirth on Thu 08/22/19 07:56 PM
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DeeJay

Thu 08/22/19 07:56 PM


Drama, money, help raise and support my kids?


Those are not necessarily limited to younger women.