I guess I hang out at the wrong spots or have the worst luck. I find it difficult to get involve with a caucasian woman. We may hit a convo off but usually be like friends and keep it moving.
lol. is there a code????

The code is 'tweety bird'.

(And they will wait for you to make the first move.)

If you’re having a convo, why not just ask if she’d like to get dinner some time?
No pain, no gain.

for some reason I happen to come off I guess as the friendly...maybe I needed to be more definitive I think...

tweety bird. I may have to Google that. lol

Good, soufie.

ok. give me some tips here.

1. tweety bird

Maybe it is as simple as the women you are "approaching" don't date men of color.
That's their perogative,they are allowed to have prefernces...just like so many men won't date overwweight women.

From the front with flowers and a smile

And try just asking duhh we ain't mind readers

But yeah be yourself be honest don't beat around the bush

Wonder what kind of replys I'd get if I asked about specific ways to approach African women?


I'm thinking maybe I'd like to add a couple to my stable.

ok not caucasian woman here.. I just want to suggest that you should put
in your profile that you want caucasian women only (and any other race should
move on). Other race might find it racist but who cares eh?

my two cents

Carefully...lol..kidding im pretty sure the same way u approach any other woman

point taken

I bet...hope it doesn't seem weird. but it could also be I am meeting women who aren't interested in dating men of color. idk

noooooooo..... I only opened the chat because of previous encounters. I am blind to pigment.

lol. I have been reading your quotes. your the life of the room.

thank you

Have you tried approaching them, in the same way
you'd respectfully approach any other woman?

Well... Have you ever watched black people, how they speak, move, behave? Their social structure is different from ours. You can even tell when you watch 'black' tv series, like in the time "The Cosby Show".
So there may be indeed a vast difference in how you approach a white or black woman.

As such we cannot advice the OP, unless we know these differences.

I seem to have the same problem, with men that is, lol. Most if not all seem to take to me as a "friend", one of the guys, ignore me, or are clueless to my subtle hints... it's very frustrating at times.

However, it's also most likely the energy I'm putting out there. I can be unapproachable at times due to either reservations about starting something new or not being sure I want to get involved.... a part of me wants to and another part of me enjoys being single.

I have found in the past that it's helpful to ask someone that I only see as a friend. Perhaps if one of the woman you have good convo's with is a close enough friend you could ask her opinion? I've been told by those I asked that they didn't think I was interested or that I acted unapproachable or reserved... that made them scared to even ask, didn't want to be rejected.

As far as cultural differences... in some ways it matters but it's also very subjective, each woman is different. I am around men of different cultures every day in my work place. I find the ones who are just being themselves and not treating me differently because of the color of my skin to be the most attractive.

So basically in a nutshell... Just be you!

Goodness lol well my dad actually my step dad is a man of color. And guess what he's just like every other man. There's not a big difference there. Not all people are like tv nor do they all speak alike or act alike. Some of these comments lol.

Ot just be yourself that's what's important