I was a teen mom who eventually found love in my mid-twenties and thought I had found a partner to last into old age. My daughter also grew to love this man (she was 6 when he came into her life) and she considered him her dad. After nearly 8 years together he has left us. The reasons behind him leaving had nothing to do with loss of love for myself and my daughter but have proven to be irreconcilable regardless. My daughter and I both feel disappointed, angry, and sad. Iām not sure how to move on or even if I should give love a chance. I fear bringing someone else into our lives and at this point I believe that she would also be skeptical about the intentions of any prospective suitor. Has anyone dealt with something similar? If so, how did you and you child(ren) cope?
Guy here, sorry if I am cold.
Thing is, I do know a bit about raising a family.
I know there is much more than love needed to do so.
Granted, this guy hurt you and your daughter.
Consider THAT.
Its very important wisdom you should learn, not only about Him but about the situation (
and yourself).
Where is your focus?
It needs to be on you and your family.
To depend on someone else, is unfair to you and your daughter.
Find your strength and make your own way.
When the right man comes along, it will present itself without question.
Till then, have sex, go on dates but never lose focus on what is really important.
I hope for you to experience the peace of a simple heart.
What you seek lies within you.
Edited by
Tom4Uhere
on Thu 08/15/19 12:17 AM