I’ve mentioned above I didn’t know that asking for a number connotes to being a scammer had I known I wouldn’t have..and like I said I understand now.....

I actually revved my Tesla and left our conversation because I also did some investigating and all his pictures in his profile if you compare them altogether I noticed wasn’t the same I think he fished them out,now I understand what he means by “ keeping it simple “ bullcrap..a friend also told me that by asking for his number I’d be able to find out which country he really is from because I noticed that in every conversation we have he keeps on saying he’s English ( UK ) as if that matters the most..lol...

Anyway like I said I’m far from his bulshit consumed all my battery and I’ve already charged my Tesla

Hi thank you for the meaningful insights:-) if you read my message below I’ve revved my Tesla and left our conversation I don’t wanna be a part of his bullcrap life

Hi I couldn’t agree more with what you’ve said it’s sad that we are affected by the craps of others...btw thank you for the advice I don’t think he’s legit anyway his pictures in his profile aren’t similar to each other and by him constantly saying he’s English is also a bit weird...I mean really I don’t want to be a part of his bullcrap...lol....

Might I suggest something?

When messaging a prospect try to find things common and start by talking about those things.
If they are close by or from a place which you know.
Talk about things he would know if he truly is who he says he is.

In my area, Washington Street Pier is very well-known.
Us locals know its called "The Rock Pile"
Anyone can do a search on the zip code and the pier.
They will not however, know that it is called "The Rock Pile"

I met my current GF on M2.
One of the topics during messaging was local landmarks.
Mainly to set up an eventual meet (which we did).
When I mentioned Washington St Pier she immediately replied "Oh the rock pile?"
This told me was at least local which was in her profile.
That known reference opened more in-depth messages because it established a bit of trust.
After a few more 'direct hits' we decided to meet face to face.

Any woman (before I met my current GF) that suggested going off site to get to know each other better was a direct "NO".
Any man that wants to go off-site without first establishing common trust with you should probably also be a direct "NO".

It all happens gradually and over repeated conversation.
Good things come to the patient one.
Just be smart: Choose wisely.

I generally 'block', at the first email message
about whatsapp.

Hi thanks for the thoughts it will be helpful going forward:-)
I must admit I was naive I mean when all you have is a good intention then you tend to miss out on being cautious:-)

I don’t think he’s actually legit all the things I was talking about all the road trips I did here in Switzerland and he doesn’t have any idea what I’m talking, about the places near Zürich like I was telling about my road trip to Winterthur which is just max 30 mins by car from here and he’s replying so weird I was telling him about the charging stations here in Switzerland as I have a Tesla model 3 and he doesn’t know it’s an environmental friendly car, and so I realize I will ask for his number ( not realizing that it connotes to being a scammer lol ) to find out where he is currently residing because he said he’s a banker at UBS here in Zürich and he said he doesn’t have a number because he wants to keep things simple lol our office is next to UBS bank along Banhoftrasse which is being dubbed at one time as the most expensive street in the world and all these he doesn’t know.

And his pictures in his profile doesn’t look the same if you compare them altogether.
So I realize these is all bonkers I’m done with him and all his bullcrap and it’s not like we chatted for a day we have been for quite a while..

That ends well thank God for all the meaningful insights it’s all a confirmation of what I was thinking intuitively

Hey Inev, I think you are on your way in becoming a Mingle2 Jedi master.. lol Stay safe and have fun..

Ha ha lol I might as well figure these out NOW 🤣🤣🤣

Yes you are doing the right thing, as you can see there are a lot of experts in the forums, and many comedians also..

Hi yes I can see that, so for advice just come to mingle2 and no need to go pay for a professional 🤣

You got it, abd don't forget the giggles..

hai..