Why do guys or men form good to have you and later become a beast?

Like one guy said here men are stupid and women are crazy
I remember I read don’t believe in what men say just love them 🤣

Isn't everyone kinda just nuts :P... We all have problems what we say does matter we can offend a lot of people in life or choose to forgive them... a bad boy only becomes a bad boy because he keeps getting treated as such if he's taught over and over that he's valued and appreciated for being cool and kind he starts to believe in that... :)

You’re right he hasn’t been treated well and learned how to be loved and love others anyway he can learn gradually

Not the kinda game I play

If we start listening to each other forgiving everything and let the past become the past not carry on... we forgive... stop living in the shadows of yesterday's mistakes and just pick your *** on up keep pushing forward and whatever were your dreams pursue those instead of hating yourself for what anyone did wrong unto you...

I don't believe they "become" beasts... a beast is a beast from the beginning. Perhaps at times we are simply blind to it, a sort of denial ignoring the signs? We ignore the signs for a lot of reasons. Sometimes from being more in love with the idea of love rather than the person... sometimes just wanting to believe they are good or that somehow our loving them will make them better. Regardless of the reason, later down the road when reality sets in, we wonder what the heck happened... what changed that person? Nothing... they are the same as they were when we met them, we were just too blind to see it.

Must say I find it quite shocking someone can call men beasts. Maybe if someone's is like Hannibal Lector and needs a mask to stop him from chewing on people...
Since you attract what matches you, I'd say start working on yourself. Then you'll see the type of men you attract change.
You could start by not calling men 'beasts' anymore.

Well put crystal, and as I've said on a previous thread today. 'it's a two way street '

Both men and women can change from good to bad, or the other way round. Jmo

Unfortunately a percentage of men are ****** And well practiced and convincing in their approach.
The same for Women.

But the percentage isn't as great as you may think.


Don't tar us all with the same brush. :)

Yes, it is, always.

When two ppl love each other deeply they’re everything in the eyes of the other when they part they’re nothing that’s life if they can be friends it’s the best

Many 'beasts' are well practiced at acting and hide their real selves; see paedophile priests and politicians, who look gracious and smile for the believers.

Girls do the same

If it's one or two, the problem is probably 'them'.

Since your implication is ALL men, the problem
is definitely 'you'.


Either your picker is broken.
Or, you simply have a knack, for bringing out
the worst in people.

I have always found it very strange that men will go out of their
way to find a biotchy woman..then wonder why, after years of living
with them.

Hello, they started out that way and only let you see it over time.
I assume the same goes for men.