Are all the women on this site too scared - even to have a chat.
No.
Only the real ones.
The scammers and spammers will chat.
Just have your credit card handy.
Maybe they AREN'T here to better or enrich their lives......
Well, the scammers and spammers are here to better and enrich THEIR lives.
With your money.
or share in the joys of companionship.
No, they would much rather complain there are no good guys (at least on other sites certainly) than actually meet one.
I thought that WAS the purpose of being on here !!
A reasonable enough assumption.
And it used to work out that way on most online dating sites years ago, much more so than nowadays.
However, as with most human endeavors, there is the original intended purpose, the logical purpose, and the eventual operational purpose, and usually, all 3 do not match.
Humans tend to have a natural knack for messing things up.
AMAZING
And amusing.
In a sad and pathetic sort of way.