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Topic: love or sex - part 2
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Toodygirl5

Sat 05/09/20 07:50 AM

love
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Nancy

Sat 05/09/20 08:14 AM


One has nothing to do with the other.

You can have sex with out love and love without sex.

Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love.

SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well.
Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment.
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Remy

Sat 05/09/20 07:09 PM

Love first then sex
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Paul

Sun 05/10/20 12:27 AM

hello chlo
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Needforspeed

Mon 05/11/20 09:18 AM

Both. Sex is better if you love your partner.
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arya

Tue 05/12/20 10:29 AM

hi
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Sarathlal

Tue 05/12/20 02:12 PM

hi i interest with u
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ivegotthegirth

Tue 05/12/20 02:37 PM



One has nothing to do with the other.

You can have sex with out love and love without sex.

Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love.

SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well.
Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment.


SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike
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ann

Tue 05/12/20 10:31 PM

Both
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SunnyMike

Tue 05/12/20 10:43 PM




One has nothing to do with the other.

You can have sex with out love and love without sex.

Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love.

SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well.
Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment.


SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike



Mike, I love how you add the 1/2 - shows you're still a kid at heart.
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Susha

Wed 05/13/20 04:12 AM

for men its good sex automatically love ...
for women real love then sex ......so it can never match
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optimisthero

Thu 05/14/20 07:51 AM

both come in harmony
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jayjay

Thu 05/14/20 11:19 AM

Love with sex
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Robhug

Fri 05/15/20 08:06 AM

:wink:️
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kamrul

Fri 05/15/20 08:41 AM

🥰:kissing_heart:
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zafran

Fri 05/15/20 08:59 AM

:kissing_heart:️
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sanjay27890

Fri 05/15/20 08:23 PM

love and sex both are an important key for a successful relationship
they both should go parallel like the railway tracks
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Vikrant Jaiswal

Fri 05/15/20 08:31 PM

Yes
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ivegotthegirth

Fri 05/15/20 08:41 PM





One has nothing to do with the other.

You can have sex with out love and love without sex.

Sex is a biological function, a hormonal need and can be nothing more than that. Love, in my opinion, is also biological, and can be strengthened through sex, but can also be strengthened through a myriad of other things. Often, we confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation never lasts. Infatuation is fleeting, but through closeness, which can include sex, it can grow into love.

SunnyMike, I like you more and more every time I see your posts. You "get it". Alas, two separate continents. Oh well.
Dating or relationship does not have to be about love, or sex. Consenting adults can make it about whatever they agree on. If their goals don't align, that's a recipe for disappointment.


You caught me! Gotta make it last as long as possible. smokin

My problem is if I'd known I was gonna live this long I'd have taken a lot better care of myself! Believe me I've lived it all.

SunnyMike;I totally agree with you, it's the old "being in love with being in love" trap that many fall into and yes it can grow into love but in my experience it's very rare and truly time consuming. At my age 63 1/2 btw I feel like do it now and if not when? Another Mike



Mike, I love how you add the 1/2 - shows you're still a kid at heart.
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jewelrana786

Fri 05/15/20 09:09 PM

good morning my dear friend how are you