Love and sex are not the same thing at all, just many people intertwine the 2. Love is a deep emotional and spiritual connection and bond, that will stand the test of time. It’s a feeling that you want to talk to that person, share your life, goals, ambitions and dreams with them, they are your bestest ever friend and make your life my special just by them being in it. It’s a feeling of warmth, compassion and tenderness, and an abundance of joy in your heart, just to be in their presence. Sex is just a biological need that ‘some’ people have, based on hormones. It’s what everyone is conditioned to believe at birth that everyone should do and want to do, when some people just don’t. There are many ways you can express love without Sex, just like many people on this site can happily meet up to have Sex without love, proving they are not the same and don’t always go together.
I personally hate sex. I am hetero—asexual, not heterosexual and I don’t associate sex with love whatsoever and not interested in it. I don’t have that biological need, just a spiritual, emotional, affectionate, and romantic need.
Good luck ,I share a lot of your ideas add to them I feel the same about alcohol tobacco and any othe drugs, so the chances of meeting someone of the age group I prefer are really slim
