First take care of yourself. Get some help from veterans organizations to get. Assistance in housing, or anything you need. Second look into gaining other types of traing so you can sit and work. Wants you show you have stability the court will give you rights to see your child or have full custody. Good luck to you
I agree m8. It's good advice...
She's had a bit of turmoil in her life by the sound of it. There is stuff to work through there.
It's going to take time. It took me about 6 months to be on nice enough terms with my first wife, to not react to things.
Don't pester her m8. You'll be in your daughters life again, just look to the future. I get a visit from the daughter of my first marriage pretty much every week. she's 31 now. Take whatever help you can get. I would.
Think about youself for the time being. Take care.